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4 Tips for More Pleasurable Penetration

sex_3For most men, penetration is the goal of sexual activity. Penetration is often associated with forceful entry and thrusting that seems to come from a very primal place. This male instinct is a force worth reckoning with and should be acknowledged, but it needs to be channeled in order to maximize pleasure for the woman. It can take some time for men to learn how to handle and direct this force, but the reward is a more intense experience, not only for her, but also for you. Here are four tips for penetration that will make sexual intercourse more pleasurable for both of you.

1) Begin Slowly

Any penetration should always begin slowly unless your partner indicates otherwise. Slow, careful movements will create a sense of safety for her, which allows the tissues of the vulva and vagina to relax and become aroused and engorged, . You can gradually increase the intensity of penetration, including the speed, depth, and force.

2) Just Put In the Tip

Penetrating with just the tip of the penis is a wonderful sensation for both of you and is a great way to begin penetration. Using just the tip is a way to tease and build anticipation, as well as increase lubrication before further penetration. You can try slow or quick movements, different angles, and positions to find out what feels best to both of you.

3) Take Your Time

Slowly working your way to full penetration is a much more skillful and exciting way to approach sexual intercourse. This can help increase the sexual tension. Going slowly also creates a sense of safety, which helps with arousal and lubrication for women, providing a much more sensuous experience for you both.

4) Go Long, Slow, and Deep

Long, slow, and deep penetration is a great way heighten arousal. After having slowly worked your way to full penetration, take some time just enjoying the sensuousness of the entire penis moving in and out of the vagina. Going slowly can also create more time to fully enjoy your intimate connection with your partner.

Ovviously, the theme here is to slow down, take your time, and enjoy the process. Learning how to make penetration as pleasurable as possible takes some experimentation, and practice. Fortunately, the learning process is fun!

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4 Responses to 4 Tips for More Pleasurable Penetration

  • Spookz says:


    Tip 4 includes “deep” penetration, what would you say is the minimum length required to provide good deep penetration?

    Appreciate you may say size doesn’t matter but surely women need or want men to have a minimum size to work with?

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Size doesn’t matter? That’s ridiculous. Six inches is absolute minimum, but 7-8 is better.

  • Lopez says:

    Where is your proof that 7-8 inches is better?

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Between my legs and those of many other women I know.

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