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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.
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4 Rules for FMF Threesomes

Threesomes are not like regular sex. If you plan on having a threesome, your relationship will likely be affected by this new experience. Chris Ford at AskMen.com recommends four rules for FMF threesomes.

There’s a whole lot of information on how to arrange a threesome, but there’s very little about what you should do once you’re in one.

Threesomes are not like regular sex — they require both imagination and sensitivity. If you plan on having a threesome, you need to go into the situation with some idea of what you’re going to be doing, you need some threesome rules.

Understanding these basic threesome rules will help you avoid some common mistakes that typically prevent you from getting the most out of your ménage à trois. There are various types of threesomes that you can enjoy, but we’re betting that you’re hoping for the type with two women, one of whom is likely your bisexual or bi-curious girlfriend or wife. What follows are the basic threesome rules on how to handle such a delectable, and potentially sticky, sexual situation. Read more

50 Responses to 4 Rules for FMF Threesomes

  • probitionate says:

    (Actually, there were FIVE rules…)

    Rule 1a: The focus should be on anyone but the male. Preferably his partner. She should be at the center of it all…at least the first time. After that…well…then you’re into a ‘relationship’ and that’s the stuff of evolution and negotiation.

    This is what makes the triads I write about work: it removes the whole ‘guy at the center of it all’ crap.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Rule 5 was just the obligatory “safe sex” mantra. It has nothing to do uniquely with threesomes, so I didn’t count it.

  • probitionate says:

    Well, as I’m in a contrarian mood today, how’s this for a re-write that strips it down to three rules? LOL

    “Although you may be hoping that the woman will give you 100% of her attention, the truth is that you’re there to please her just as much as she’s there to please you.

    The best way to approach this situation, and an important general rule to follow in all sexual situations, is to forget your feelings for a moment and try to be as generous with your hands and mouth as you can.

    Pleasure in one-on-one sex goes back and forth, So be patient; focus on turning her on and the attention will come back to you.

    Whatever pleasure you get is a treat, so instead of expecting anything in particular (like getting oral sex), enjoy everything that comes your way.

    Keeping your hands moving and knowing when to penetrate are important rules for having great sex with your partner.”

    In a nutshell, if you’re a good lover with your partner…and really, SHE’S the judge of that, not you…then you’re probably going to be a good lover in a triad. If you trip and fall in a threesome…guess what? Chances are you’re not as ‘good’ a lover as you might think. Threesomes magnify things.

  • Ashley says:

    I was wondering if it’s ok to have feelings toward the other person when your having a threesome. I say I love you and I truly mean it to our MFM partner. My husband hers me say it and has never been bothered by me saying it. I said before we have been doing this for over 11yrs now with him on a regular basics. I still love my husband just the same and honestly can say more than before. I think you grow to love your husband more as time goes on in life. But I do feel a strong love toward Jerry as well, is this normal and is it wrong. Svetlana Lvanova.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Why would it be wrong to love somebody? You still love your husband, and you’re not planning to leave him. Be happy that you have a heart big enough to love more than one man :). Some women don’t have a big enough heart to really love even one.

  • Ashley says:

    Thanks Svetlana sometimes I blame it on the Bigger cock lol pleasing me so much more. I don’t feel guilty my husband wanted me and lets me enjoy it regularly. My heart is VERY BIG for both and imagining my life without them both would kill me. I think my husband created a nympho out of me something I don’t regret I feel more alive than ever. I sit here at work think of them both I actuall just texted my husband telling him I want them both after work ;). Your site helps me feel normal thank you so much it’s just hard to explain my feelings to others like friends. I dont know if I make sense lol To: Sventlana Ivanova

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Perfect sense, Ashley :).

  • Ashley says:

    Thanks Sweetie I hope it’s ok to spill my guts on here if not any suggestions lol

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Perfectly OK :).

  • Ashley says:

    Svetlana Ivanova, It’s been awhile since I posted, I love this site and your mind set. I think society makes it very difficult to express yourself openly with others. Having been in a threeway relationship for over 11yrs now closer to 12 yrs. I talked to my husband about our conversation and my feelings. I told my husband how I felt love towards Jerry just the same as him. To my surprise my husband said he understood and could tell. He just smiled and didnt make any more of it I felt akward and a little confused. I think it was a few days to a week later just before going to meet for a threesome weekend with Jerry. I asked my husband if it hurt him when I told him about my feelings. My husband said freench kissed me and said he had never trusted and felt as confident with any women as much as he did with me. Durring our 3 day fuck fest I told Jerry I loved him while he made me cumm. I held my husbands hand while french kissing and cumming on Jerrys longer thicker cock. My husband like always loves askking me how much it feels better than his. I told my husband how full I felt and thanked both Jerry for providing mind blowing orgasms. My husband for loving me and enjoying me being satisfied to my fullest sexuall desires and beyond. The kinky to our sex life holds strong what once felt akward OMG I could never change.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    It’s great that your husband is secure enough to want you to have pleasure that he can’t provide. Many men couldn’t deal with that situation.

  • Ashley says:

    I think the swingers life style maybe different to my personal life style. But I think in general the sharing concept of understanding is the same. We do invite different females from time to time into our sex life. I do feel very lucky my husband lets and enjoys me being brought to mind blowing orgasms.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    An FMF threesome gives him some special from time to time too. That’s only fair.

  • Ashley says:

    I enjoy FMF and like you said it’s only fair, it’s surprisingly easyer than I thought to find willing females. lol We live close to a casino and have picked up girls and enjoyed them. Like my husband loves to sit back and watch me enjoy Jerry I also love to watch my husband enjoy him self with a sexy female.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Watching sex is a turn-on, especially when it’s live instead of on video :).

  • Rod Ashley says:

    I will agree 100% live is better than TV lol,for us it wasn’t me trying to watch it live. I wanted to watch my wife enjoy a bigger cock and thats exactly what happened for us. My wife told me she stared to write on this blog again this site the only one we found with a moderator that responds back. It has been a positive experience I had posted with negative responses from other sites. People responding to me not being a real man for doing what we do. Its been nearly 12yrs living this life style and it has been very fun. I enjoy it myself very much and watching my wife is intense. My wife told me she posted her feelings about Jerry on here. Sometimes I don’t understand why Im comfortable with her feelings and accepting. Im not a cockold like other forums posters call me. I guess I wonder what this makes me, our marriage is great. Better than most people we know we love eachother enjoy eachother sexually and emotionally. Im not humiliated by my wife I do for reasons I can’t explain enjoy hearing how Jerrys feels inside of her and how much she enjoys it.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    I’m not sure why people respond to you negatively since you, your wife, and Jerry are in a loving relationship. One thing that people don’t recognize is that people and relationships are complicated. Everything doesn’t fit into neat categories. That’s actually good, but it makes some people uncomfortable or crazy.

  • Rod Ashley says:

    Thats the reason I don’t share our relationship with people we know. I don’t want to be critisized and I don’t want to offend anyone with our life style choices. I understand how people feel uncomfortable I have worked with homosexuals who spoke to others about their sexuall life style. I could see and feel the uncomforable enviroment it developed. We aren’t one to promote this life style it’s just one we enjoy for ourselves

  • Tina USA says:

    Hello, I’ve been married along time lol reading Ashleys comments got me thinking allot. I don’t know how much older I am than most of the people on here. The size thing when I was growing up the experts said it didn’t make any difference. Now I hearing allot more that it does, Just wondering how Ashley would react if her husband wanted the 3some thing to end. For myself I have pondered the idea of a 3some but trying to figure out how to go about it. So just been reading the different ideas given on the sites. If anyone has any I wouldn’t mind ;).

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Size does matter. I’ve recently advised a couple of women about taking their first big one, and they both experienced all the pleasure that I had promised them and more. For threesomes, I highly recommend hooking up with friends, rather than strangers.

  • Ashley says:

    Hi Tina, Well not sure of you age Im in my earliy thirty’s I don’t think age really matters. I totally agree with Svetlana on size matters and the pleasure it delivers ;). Well I would be hurt, I feel bad to say this but pissed if he wanted to stop it now. We have been doing this for a along time and if you read my post. I have strong feeling for Jerry, it doesn’t take any love I have for my husband away.I also do enjoy Jerry much bigger cock lol and don’t think I would be willing to give that up. The 3some question my question would be have you talked to your husband about this? I think that would be the first step at this point. I you have talked to him about it what did he say? I recommend reading all the info on this site it really help!

  • Ashley says:

    Svetlana Ivanova, Hi sweetie love your comment ;) the truth “Size does matter”! So where can we read about the advice or story about the women you advised taking their first BIG ONE. I wanna hear about that and the pleasure they told you about. Well just thought I’d ask lol have a great day sis.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    You know, Ashley, it never occurred to me, but an article about how to take a big penis for the first time probably would be helpful. I’ve had quite a few comments and emails about the topic over the years. Thanks for the idea.

  • Ashley says:

    Svetlana Ivanova, No problem you should include the info from the girls you helped lol. If you want I will put my experience up as well sweetie lol. I think most women can handle Big Ones Im petite my self and didn’t suffer and difficulties. I was pretty excited and ready for it and dont have any of the cevical problems somehave talked of having. Im very lucky myself having this experience thats been a true blessing.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Absolutely, Ashley, if you have any tips from your own experience, post them or email them to me. I agree with you that petite women can take big penises. Size doesn’t matter in that respect LOL.

  • Tina USA says:

    Wow Ashley thats pretty strong feelings to be pissed if your husband wanted it to end. It must be confusing being in love with to men,but it sounds like your in love with both. Sounds like his bigger size really influences you allot. How much bigger is he compared to your husband, your making it pretty clear how much size matters.No I havent brought the subject of a 3some up to him, not sure how to do that. I have been reading this subject and other on the site and my mind wonders allot. I dont know how to explain my desire for a bigger cock but its something I want to experience. What was and is your experience like with his bigger cock may I ask.

  • Ashley says:

    Hi Tina, The feeling are 12yrs of having a strong sexuall and emotional relationship with both. I would be mad because my husband has opened up these feelings to develop. My love is equal for both men and my husband understands this. Our 3somes are very regular I will enjoy both men regularly weekly. I think most 3somes aren’t like mine they are with random people on occation. That is very different and feeling wont develop to this level. my husbands penis is about 6 1/4″ long and about 5-5 1/4″ around Jerry is 9 1/2″ long and 6 3/4″ around. The size in inches might seem not so big if it was a car or boat. But when your talking about the difference in penis sizes comparing the two durring sex is extremly different. I to have read and heard size doesn’t matter but they are two very different experiences. As far as bringing up the subject I think you could start asking about any fantisys he may have. You need to also have an open mind to some he may have, this will open up to give you a chance to tell your own fantisys. I love reading Svetlana’s different post my mind also wanders as well. I think it would be nice to try new things as well theres always room to explore and make sex funner.Your curiosity or desire for a bigger cock isn’t anything to be ashamed of. Why it happens I think is different for everyone for me I had never really thought about it. My husband was the one to bring this into our relationship and I thank him every time we have sex for it. As far as explaining my first experience I don’t have time at this moment but I promise I will share very soon with you. Maybe Svetlana will descibe as well ;) but I promise I will Im just busy now.

  • Tina USA says:

    Thanks Ashley, for answering my questions thats is a very big difference and I have a better understanding of your relationship. My husband is simular in size to your husband just a big smaller. I think thats the actuall problem I feel it for a very short while. Then it’s like I only feel our bodies moving togeather. I have been doing keagles for 7yrs in yoga class to help. It’s just fustrating for me sexually I think reading this site has helped me focus on my problem. I did mention about fantisys and he seemed get into it for a minute. Then went back to his TV show so I just walked out of the room. Very fustrated right now and don’t know how to get happy. I guess I was wondering between you and the moderator what could should I do. I have given cheating a though and would do it in a second lol.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Tina, your comment should be read by men everywhere who wonder why their women cheat. I can’t imagine what TV program could be more interesting than talking to your wife about sexual fantasies. I’m glad you’re doing Kegels because they’re good for your health and sexual satisfaction, but if you don’t feel anything inside your vagina, it’s not your fault, Kegels or no Kegels. It sounds as if your husband has a small penis.

    The good thing about threesomes or swinging is that you get to have different sexual experiences while maintaining your relationship with your partner. Cheating forces you to be dishonest and sneaky. I’m not saying don’t do it, but it will affect your relationship with your husband even if he never finds out about it.

    One alternative is something I recommended to a woman whose ex-husband had been small and who didn’t have a current partner is getting a big dildo. Her ex was about 4.5 inches, so I recommended 7-8 inches to start with. By using the dildo, you can get an idea how being really filled feels. The woman I’m talking about had a wonderful orgasm the first time she tried a big dildo and was immediately wanting something even bigger LOL.

    If you decide to go that route, at least at first, be sure to let me know, and I can give you some tips for your first time.

  • Tina USA says:

    Svetlana,
    Thanks for your help do you have any advice for sites that sell the bigger size dildos? I think his thickness or lack of thickness is a very big factor. Im figuring his might be smaller in size, but it’s impossible to fix the situation with him. Over the years I have tought about cheating and didn’t want to break my vows. At this point I can careless but I think figuring out my size lol would be a good Idea before. Any tips you have will be welcome cant wait to hear back from you.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Tina, you’re right that thickness is more important than length for sexual pleasure. Longer penises tend to be thicker also, but thickness does vary quite a bit among penises of the same length.

    I would just shop at Amazon for dildos. They have a good variety at good prices, and you can have it in a few days, or even faster if you want.

    When choosing among dildos of the same length, I would recommend choosing the thicker one. If you click the link, there’s a thick 7-inch dildo that you might like. It may look a little intimidating, but you’ll be able to take it as long as you’re ready and wanting it. You should also buy a good sexual lubricant, such as Astroglide, if you don’t already have something like that on hand.

  • Tina USA says:

    Svetlana, Thanks I actually found a store that has sex toys ect.. The town is about 30 miles from where I live so not like Im going to bump into neighbors lol. Im at work right now so after work Im going to treat myself to starbucks lol. Then Im going to go to the store and look around at the different toys/dildos. I might get a electric Ice T before I go in shop lol. As far as me knowing anything about penis size lol I really made a comment about whats totally not there for me durring sex lol. So yeah thickness has been or rather a word of sensation not really happening. But thats when Im lucky he can peel his fat ass off the TV.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Good for you, Tina. A lot of women don’t want to go into a sex shop, but if it’s far enough away from your home, go for it. Remember the lube!

    Your husband isn’t any worse than many from what I hear. It’s just too bad that he can’t satisfy a hot, sexy woman such as yourself.

  • Tina USA says:

    Hi Svetlana, I just got home from Taboo it’s a nice little sex shop. I went in freeking out in my head but calmed down after awhile. The girl working in the place was nice took awhile to get comfortable to talk to her. She suggested a cyber skin dildo when I said the cost doesn’t really matter. I so Looked at them some of the different sizes they have OMG lol. I told her I wanted to try something thicker she looked at my ring finger. Then made aa circle with her fingers and asked what I was use to. I showed her with my fingers and she showed me and few and left me to choose. I got one that stated 9″ but she said it’s actually 7 1/2″ insertable. I also told her I wanted to get lubercant and we got the astroglide you suggested. I didn’t tell her my life story lol it was nice she stated the price and asked if it was cash or credit. I said credit and she said she could take my card to the counter and ring it up. She came back a few minutes with my things in a bag so I didnt even have to go to the counter. Im sure she could tell I was very nervious and felt akward so she made it easyer for me. Now its just figuring out how to send my husband this weekend to the store or something. So I can use it with out being interupted lol.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Sounds like you’re all set, Tina. Give yourself plenty of time to enjoy this – an hour at least. Be sure to get yourself really turned on with fingers or vibrator before you insert your new toy. Rub it up and down your lips and tease your hole before you start to push it in. Take it slow as you enjoy the sensation of it opening and stretching your vagina. Do all the things you wish you husband would do and have fun :)!

  • Tina USA says:

    Hi Svetlana, I have been having a hard time finding time to respond . Since I got my new toy I have become a little obssessed with it lol. I finally got time to write you and OMG it’s very nice the girth fills the void. I did what you said and took my time and reach a great orgasm. The other night I went to bed earliy and used it for a good two hours or more before my husband came into the room. I actuall got him to have a sex for a 10 minute round of pointless sex. I was laughing so hard inside feeling the difference between him and the toy. When he roled over and started to fall asleep I grabbed the toy . I brang myself to a great orgasm and moaned out load.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Heh, heh, I’m glad you’re having fun with your new toy. Much more convenient than cheating, right? :) Some women who have had bad experiences with well-endowed men who didn’t know what they were doing or were jerks don’t seem to believe how great a big penis/dildo can be, but used right, it’s the best.

  • Tina USA says:

    I didn’t really know how much better it is, size matters lol. As for me cheating or not I don’t know where I am with that. I think its more about not being happy with the pointless relationship I have. But I do know when more than if this come to an end. I will make sure I find a man with all the things I would like in a relationship and in the bed room. Im going to make another trip to the sex store and try a bigger size. This has been a very awakening experience, I have been reading about sex groups. I have considered going to a sex party as well I do desire the human contact as well.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    That’s always what women do after they find out how good big feels – they want something bigger LOL. You’re absolutely right that a dildo can’t replace a man. I was just saying that cheating might create more problems in your life than it solves.

    I think you must be talking about going to a swinging party. As a single woman, you will be able to get in. Expect LOTS of male attention. Single females are rare. Remember that if you go to one, as a desirable female, you get to pick. You don’t have to have sex with someone like your husband just because you’re at a swinging party.

  • Tina USA says:

    Svetalana, I sure your right about them wanting to try to reach maximum capacity lol. I actually went to the sex store yesterday when I got off. I called the day before to find out the girl who helped me before would be in. I felt comfortable talking to her and already had a good connection. I felt comfortable telling her a little bit about myself and how pleased I was with my first dildo. I told her it was much bigger than what my husband could give me we both lol. Like both of us she said she understands the pleasure of size. I actually got two new dildos both over nearing 11-14″ in length ones 6 3/4″ around and the others 7 1/2″ around. The are very huge toys she said you don’t have to use every inch. But said if you find the need it’s always there. She said the 7 1/2″ around dildo is very intense and to use it as needed. It was funny she was sounding like a doctor listening to my desires and complaints. I did use the 6 3/4″ around dildo OMG it got me really quick. I also found the deep spot after I got done cumming from the first rush. The Deep spot was extreamly intense my body actually realeased fluid when I cam. I told her I was interested in finding a swingers type group telling her with guys well fitting lol. She giggled and said there are a few groups shes been too. But said they very in ranges lol but said she has heard the same request before. She said she will put the idea in a few ears of people she knows. So hopfully that might work out thanks again sweetie.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    You’re lucky to have found a girl at the sex store who really knows what she’s talking about. I’m glad you found a bigger dildo that you liked. The deep spot gives an amazing orgasm. It takes a longer penis/dildo to hit it. I do hope you find a swinger type group in your area, but until then, have fun with your dildo :). Keep me updated, honey.

  • Tina USA says:

    Thanks Svetlana, I have found allot about my own body this weekend spending time with the dildos. I think it’s become a bit addicting useing the dildos for me. My sex drive has erupted is the only way to explain it. I have rediscovered my body and allot about myself. I called crystal a this morning asking her if she talked to anyone yet. She hadn’t yet but told me she would call me right back. She called me and Im going to Olive Garden tonight to meet with two couples. She said both are really fun she had been to swingers partys with. She did tell me that most do not like married men or women who are doing this behind the backs of thier mates. I talked to one of the women on the phone and told her my circumstance. She seemed understanding and said it’s just a dinner nothing more at this time. This weekend I told me husband I feel alone and if something doesn’t change will leave. He looked at me and said why are you so crazy and walked away. I told him it’s over and went into my room and locked the door. so today I figured taking my desires and my life back and full filling my life with joy.Well thanks sweetie I’ll be back

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Sexual pleasure can definitely be addictive. I hoped that the dildos might fulfill your sexual desires and allow you to endure your marriage, but they seemed to have had the opposite effect. I know that you were already dissatisfied with your marriage, but leaving is a huge step. I hope you make the right decision.

    Swingers’ groups vary in size and “policies,” but some consider themselves quite respectable and won’t have anything to do with cheating spouses. You could try online if you can’t set something up locally. Single women are in demand for threesomes. Of course, sometimes bisexual action is expected, but not always. Good luck.

  • Tina USA says:

    I just joined adultfriendfinder and posted a add I guess you could call it lol. I did meet with the couples last night they are very nice people we talked allot. The subject didn’t come up about me being married it was more about life in general. Amanda one of the wives invited me to her house for lunch this weekend. We talked after a bit about my situation while we was leaving, she got divorced 5 yrs ago. I did get the Bi sexuall feeling from her I never tryed it before. I have been thinking about how it would be and would consider it she is attractive lol. Im not sure who but I think it maybe her husband Crystal was talking about with the big one lol. But from what she said it’s going to be just the two of us. Also let me say this OMG the new dildos are UMMM so good. Very intense I actually think im going to take Crystals advice and get a suction cup dildo. She said they are very fun in the shower so I’ll be picking up one lol. I think its funny going from no toys to a bunch, but I am enjoying my self. It makes tolorating my life easyer and my hope was also it would fix things. It has done good physically but still the emotional part is very fustrating for me.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    I’m glad the meeting went well. If you do decide to try a lesbian encounter, just let her guide you. She’ll understand that you’ve never done it before. The suction cups are good because you can thrust your hips instead of having to use your hands to push the dildo in and out. Keep in touch and let me know how things go, sweetie.

  • Tina USA says:

    I just had to get on and say I remember reading about how the nerve endings in the vagina are only 3″ deep. Thats totall BULLSHIT OMG what the hell are they talking about I must have extended nerve endings lol. I can feel every single fraction of an inch inside of me WAY beyond 3″ lol. Anyways I just had the orgasm of my life and had to let anyone who thought that know the TRUTH. I working up on what may take place and plan to let her lead me lol. I think I may have time tommorow to buy the suction cup dildo. You was very right about it long ones feeling good. My mind was more on making up for my husbands skinny penis. We are now sleeping in seperate rooms and I talked to an lawyer. I told him and he didn’t say anything to me he called our daughter and she cussed me out. I gave her my two cents for siding with him that pissed me off her brought her into it. But unfortunatly shes always been a daddys girl, but I have my trusty dildo to keep me happy. with the suction cup dildo the whole idea of being able to have it fixxed against the floor and ride makes it sound exciting. Any other ideas please keep them cumming thank sweetie love you.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    As I say on my “About” page, what academic sexologists says is true and what actually is true about sex are sometimes two different things. To be fair, when they’re talking about the entrance and the first few inches of the vagina having nerve endings, I think they mean that those are the most sensitive – not necessarily that there are none deeper inside, which would be nonsense, of course.

    You’re probably just seeing the beginning with people being upset with you for ending your marriage. It affects more than just you and him. The best way to handle it is to hear them, explain your point of view, and avoid getting into a fight if you can. Emotions will be riding high enough without adding more conflict to the mix.

    If you haven’t been to the sex store yet, I have a couple of things you might consider adding. One is a small bullet vibrator for clit stimulation. I wouldn’t use it directly on the clit though at first, but on the mons right above it. With the big dildo inside you, you should be getting clit stimulation, but the bullet can add some from a different angle. You could also add a butt plug for some anal sensation, plus it will tighten up the vaginal canal slightly -not that you need that with the big dildos -but it can give you a slightly different feeling.

    No need to take either of my suggestions though, Tina. It sounds like you’re doing just fine.

  • Tina USA says:

    Hi Sventlana, Itook your advice about letting her lead the way. My feeling where right she wanted to explore with me. I didn’t know what to exspect from a girl on girl experience. I liked it allot lol lets just say tonight will be my first night back home. I ended up staying the weekend with her so I can only think my husband will be angery. I brought my toys with me lol I didn’t want to leave them home. I didn’t want my husband to find them but they did come in handy. I also got the suction cup and bullet vibe you told me about. I love the bullet its very intense, her tounge was amazing as well. She was a pure artist with her amazing tounge she had totall control of me lol. We did talk allot about size lol she said she found out about size very young. She said she found out she was a BIG GIRL lol very early on. She like you said durring her time swinging she hasn’t met a girl who did’t enjoy a BIG ONE. I did enjoy her tounge on my clit allot while using the big dildos on me. So im sure using the vide with the dildos alone will help make up for that. Her husband she said is very well endowed and would love to share him with me. She is planning something for this weekend and said she would be getting back with me. I looked at a few of the butt plugs they had wow one looked like a giant mushroom lol. Im going to read up on anal sex stuff and explore a little more about that. My anal experience is very limited lol well actually to say the truth non existant. But so was allot of stuff till of reacent my life is changing and I am enjoying it very much thanks sweet heart.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    I’m glad everything went so well. Girl-on-girl is almost always great if you like the girl. Her oral skills helped make it even better though, it sounds like. It’s great that her husband is well-endowed. You’ll be able to experience a big penis with someone who is probably good at using it. Butt plugs sometimes come in sets of different sizes. Start with a smaller one, but just like with dildos, you’ll want a bigger one pretty soon :).

    Sexually, everything seems to be going well with you. I hope you can work out the relationship issue too, sweetie.

  • Adonis says:

    All the best in experimenting with sex toys Tina. Have fun

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