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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.
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3 Tips to Turn Your Sexual Fantasies into Reality

Everyone has sexual fantasies, but how do you convince your partner to act them out? Sexpert Sarah Gibson discusses three tips to turn you sexual fantasies into reality. (She’s addressing men, but her tips apply to both genders.)

Last week I gave you a glimpse into the female mind and told you about Her Top 5 Fantasies – and this week it’s your turn! I’m not going to tell you what your top fantasies are (because you already know that) but I am going to give you some hints and tips on how to turn those fantasies into a reality.

It can be hard to communicate your deepest, dirtiest fantasies with your partner, and before you even try you need to be sure that your girlfriend or wife feels secure and satisfied in your relationship; because if she’s not, no matter how well you proposition her, she’ll be unlikely to want to share the fantasy adventure with you. Read more

6 Responses to 3 Tips to Turn Your Sexual Fantasies into Reality

  • Paul Morrison says:

    At 63 years old, sad to say that my best (sexual) days are behind me, but my memories of exploring and acting on sexual fantasies will be with me forever. I have not guilt or regret, in fact…at this age I would deeply regret my wife and I not having stepped outside the box from time to time. At the time (years ago) that we agreed to live out a couple of our fantasies, had neighbors, employers or family members even suspected that was what we enjoyed…the effects would have been paramount to (being burned at the stake) Indeed, society has come a long way. The experience that we agreed was the most sensual, erotic and intensily arousing (from my perspective) was when I hid inside a walk-in closet only a few feet from our bed, (her lover did not know I was home) and I watched & listened for two hours, while my wife had the best sex she had ever had in her entire life…and yes, her lover was extremely endowned, especially in girth. My sexual gradification was 100% tied to the level of her sexual arousal while in bed with her lover that night. Fair to say it was a win-win-win situation.

  • MarkS says:

    what a hott tale. wasnt she loose after that? did you have her second time during that night? was she better before or after him?

  • Ashley says:

    My husband and I started to have 3somes his idea with his best friends whos allot bigger in girth and length. When my husband suggested it I said no not wanting it to effect our special bond. My husband was very persistant and after about 3 weeks or so talking I was actually looking forward to it. My husband was a doll he stayed back once his very well endowed friend took me. I will admit it was a much more intense sexuall experience. Right after his friend cam inside me my husband got between my legs and entered me he quickly said dam you stretched her out dude laughing. I giggled and we joked about it and had wonderfull sex.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Absolutely. A big penis can feel wonderful, but the man is more important than his penis.

  • Ashley says:

    I totally agree with you I love my husband very much to say the truth even more since we started this. I love my husband and his penis ;) very much that hasn’t changed. But I also enjoy the intense pleasure a bigger penis can give and apart on me loves him to in a different way but its all fun and my husband is my #1. Thanks Svetlana for being honest about penis size lol it nice to her other ladies be honest about it.

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