100 Things about Me Sexually
I got the idea for doing this post from the list that Wendy Blackheart posted at her blog. I agree with her that it’s not easy to make a list like this, so, if you think some of the entries are lame, try making one yourself. (Here’s a list of 100 Sexy Facts by Melody Nieves at SexiDesign, who read my list and decided to make one of her own.)
- I started having sex when I was 15,
- But it wasn’t until my senior year of high school that I really started experimenting.
- That’s when I first had anal sex,
- And my first MFM threesome.
- I’ve slept in the nude off and on since I was a teenager.
- When I don’t, I wear panties.
- I go commando sometimes, but not very often.
- Same thing with going braless – once in awhile, but not very often.
- I feel really sexy wearing stiletto heels,
- But I don’t wear them often enough for them to be really comfortable.
- I love going naked,
- But I don’t like clothed people staring at me when I am.
- And the problem with nudist clubs and resorts is that they tend to be full of old people.
- The most exquisite sensation of sexual intercourse is when the head first pushes past the lips into my vagina.
- The most exquisite sensation in anal sex is when he pulls out and then slides back in the first time.
- The in-stroke is intensely sensual.
- I usually can’t feel it when a man ejaculates into my vagina,
- Though I can always feel him shoot into my anus.
- My favorite vaginal sex position is the Pelvic Slide.
- My second favorite is missionary with raised legs.
- My favorite anal sex position is lying on my back.
- My second favorite is lying on my stomach with my hips raised a little on a pillow.
- I’m pinned down, so I just relax and let him do me.
- I hate professional porn,
- Though I like some amateur porn.
- When it doesn’t try to imitate professional porn.
- For one thing, I don’t get “cumshots.”
- If a man pulled out of me and started jacking off, I’d kick him out of bed.
- Nothing is more exciting to me than the moment when a man’s penis stiffens and his balls tighten during fellatio,
- Except maybe feeling his semen shooting and splashing inside my mouth.
- Swallowing has always seemed to me like the natural conclusion to sucking a penis.
- It’s my reward for a job well done.
- I can’t help it, but a man who shoots a big load seems to be more of a stud to me than a man who shoots a small one.
- I like thick, creamy semen better than thin, watery semen.
- I know the reasoning behind semen retention in Tantra,
- But I feel cheated when a man doesn’t ejaculate during sex.
- Deep throating a penis while I lick his scrotum is a power trip,
- And irrumatio isn’t just pleasurable for the man either.
- Lying back and letting a man slide is penis in and out of your throat can be very sensual.
- I enjoy the sensation of having something large stretch and fill my vagina.
- My orgasms are more intense when my vagina is filled to capacity. .
- That’s why I love being fisted.
- Vaginally, not anally.
- MFM threesomes are as intense as it gets sexually.
- I love double penetration,
- Though I haven’t been double penetrated as often as I’d like to have been,
- Because arranging an MFM threesome isn’t as easy as you’d think.
- Using a sex toy for double penetration is just not as exciting as two penises.
- I’ve never had all three holes filled at once.
- I’ve never had an FMF threesome,
- And I don’t want to if I’m expected to have sex with the other female.
- I’ve watched other women having sex,
- But I’ve never wanted to have sex with them myself.
- I could tongue kiss another woman.
- In fact, I have.
- And she was a good kisser, but it was sensual, not sexual.
- I could even play with another woman’s breasts,
- Though it would feel weird to have small, soft hands playing with mine.
- But I could never touch another woman’s vagina.
- And don’t even mention going down on another woman.
- Since I don’t have one, penises fascinate me.
- I especially love thick penises that expand my vaginal walls and rub against my G-spot.
- Long, thin penises can be the worst of both worlds.
- They can bump your cervix, which sometimes hurts,
- And they don’t fill you up the way a thick penis does.
- Pegging or Bend Over Boyfriend is my new favorite sex act,
- Though I wish I could feel with a dildo what a man feels with his penis.
- I’d like to know what that sensation feels like.
- So far, I’m batting a thousand persuading boyfriends to bend over,
- Though two at-bats don’t make a season.
- I love it when a man ejaculates from anal stimulation without any penile stimulation.
- It’s like female ejaculation.
- It’s not supposed to be possible.
- It still kind of freaks me out when I squirt.
- I enjoy rough sex, but not too rough.
- I’m not really very kinky.
- Though I had sex on South Beach once.
- Pegging and threesomes aren’t kinky, are they?
- The best thing I ever did for myself sexually was to follow a program of PC muscle exercises.
- I know my strong PC muscles are the reason I have orgasms with intercourse.
- And the look on a man’s face as I milk his penis with my vaginal muscles is priceless.
- Men love the vaginal squeeze even better than deep throat.
- I don’t have sexual dreams very often,
- Or at least not dreams that I recognize as sexual.
- I’ve never been sexually assaulted,
- Though I’ve done things sexually that I didn’t really want to do at the time or with that particular man.
- But that’s just part of life.
- You go along to get along sometimes.
- Since high school, my longest sexual dry spell has been six weeks.
- I can always get laid if I want to,
- Though not necessarily laid well.
- It took a while before I could tell the difference.
- A woman doesn’t have to be skilled at sex.
- Being willing and enthusiastic is enough for most men.
- Even now, I’m still proud of myself when a man climaxes during sex with me.
- Is there any bigger disappointment than when your partner can’t get an erection?
- It’s even worse than premature ejaculation.
- At least then you get to enjoy the moment of penetration.
- Nowadays, I’d rather have no sex at all than bad sex,
- But lately I haven’t had to make that choice.
Similar Posts:
- Anal Sex from a Female Perspective
- Can a Woman Feel When a Man Ejaculates Inside Her?
- Is Porn Making Men Bad at Sex?
- What Does Sex Feel Like for a Woman?
- What Sex Feels Like for a Man – and for a Woman
Tags: Anal Sex, female ejaculation, Female Orgasm, MFM threesomes, Sex Techniques, Sexual Relationships
I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. My sexual history and preferences are detailed in my post 
September 20th, 2008 at 2:44 am
reading what u have doen sexual was really nice . very good blog
September 20th, 2008 at 2:57 am
I’m not sure if some of those count.. it’s like a long sentenced numbered paragraph..
September 20th, 2008 at 6:59 am
I think they do count because each clause adds more information, and no sentence is more than three clauses long.
September 20th, 2008 at 11:55 am
I can’t feel when men ejaculate inside of me either. I thought it was the condom, but I had some no condom sex and still couldn’t tell. I feel bad trying to figure out if they came yet or if I should keep going, lol.
Great list! I love seeing people writing these! They are hard, but very fun. :)
September 20th, 2008 at 12:17 pm
Thanks for the compliment on the list. I used yours to give me an idea of what I might include, but it ended up quite a bit different from yours – not only in content, but in style.
September 25th, 2008 at 8:40 am
I am trying to convince my partner into anal and a threesome (MFM ideally as I want her to enjoy two penises at once but I’ll take a FMF) and the advice you give is fantastic. I only wish I had of met someone like you when I was single for some first hand advice!
September 25th, 2008 at 12:05 pm
Thanks, G Man. I may eventually do a post on how to persuade your female partner to try an MFM threesome even though I wasn’t exactly “persuaded” my first time.
September 25th, 2008 at 12:58 pm
I always tell my girl “I’m going to come” just before I do. The act of telling her makes me hold off even longer and she gets very aroused from the prospect.
September 30th, 2008 at 8:12 am
You sound like an incredible lover. Whoever has the honor of enjoying you in bed must be a very lucky man.
We found nos. 85 – 88 to be quite interesting. Recently, we came across some other bloggers who insisted that scenario was sexual assualt whether the “victim” knew it or not. They were incredulous when we suggested there was a difference between rape and reluctant consensual sex, so it’s nice to come across another female blogger who feels the same way we do.
September 30th, 2008 at 8:29 am
As I said in response to a comment on my post about the incident, “I didn’t think of it as rape because of who was involved, the situation, and the role of alcohol, but I was definitely disrespected.”
October 5th, 2008 at 10:15 am
#45 endears me to you completely
October 8th, 2008 at 1:46 pm
i cum once during reading ur 100 , with my finger
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October 24th, 2008 at 7:35 am
Vikas, I guess you didn’t read my blog’s FAQ.
November 2nd, 2008 at 4:11 am
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November 2nd, 2008 at 4:14 am
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November 2nd, 2008 at 1:16 pm
#93 & 94: Don’t kid yourself there. An experienced and talented man is going to deeply appreciate a woman who has learned to be as good at sex as he is, and yes, many men will talk down about previous lovers.
“She was enthusiastic” when stated with a shrug that reveals just how unenthusiastic he was about her lack of skill is as bad as hearing “She just laid there.” And yes, good lovers talk about past lovers.
How else do you think a woman gets to find out that lover #3 had a neat trick with her tongue, or #5 squirted and he thought it was amazingly hot?
Far better to be an awesome lover and be one of the ones that he tells someone else about when listing the 5 best lovers, than to be labeled as “enthusiastic.”
November 20th, 2008 at 11:54 am
You are so HOT!!!!
November 20th, 2008 at 3:30 pm
Hiya u seem a hot babe. Very informative web blog. How do u feel about interacial sex? Have u ever tried interacial sex before ( viz black on white fun!).
Regards
Brian
November 20th, 2008 at 4:51 pm
I have tried interracial sex. I just never thought to mention it. I learned the Friction Zone Technique from a black lover.
November 22nd, 2008 at 2:26 am
I like your list.
I love being anally penetrated by my wife. Lately, I’ve been taking her hand and it has felt absolutely incredible. I have orgasms, but without ejaculation. My penis doesn’t even stay hard. The orgasms move up my spine and release. Very beautiful.
November 22nd, 2008 at 7:28 am
It’s too bad more men aren’t as open to exploring their sexual potential as you are, Ben. They would get a lot more out of sex if they were.
December 10th, 2008 at 1:55 pm
I LOVE SEEING A PRETTY FACE FILLED WITH MY MEAT
December 30th, 2008 at 3:44 pm
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January 8th, 2009 at 6:02 pm
“And the look on a man’s face as I milk his penis with my vaginal muscles is priceless.”
There is such a thing as a natural woman; and you are her:)
January 28th, 2009 at 12:27 am
what’s so bad about cumshots? why would you kick a man out of bed if he pulled out and did it? the fact that so many men love cumshots should tell you there’s nothing degenerate about it
January 28th, 2009 at 5:57 am
I’ll bet no man in the history of the world ever voluntarily pulled out of his woman’s vagina and masturbated to climax until seeing it in porn. Men’s natural instinct is to thrust deeper to ejaculate, not to pull out. “Cumshots” also cheat a woman of the thrill and satisfaction of bringing her man to orgasm.
January 31st, 2009 at 7:24 pm
I can never find a woman that’ll let me penetrate her anally. What do I have to do? How do I talk her into it? Your sex life is amazing.
January 31st, 2009 at 8:08 pm
Try the suggestions in How to Make Her Want Anal Sex.
February 22nd, 2009 at 6:04 pm
i´’s funny after several points I coudn’t read anymore. I don’t wanna go where you have gone. The trip is always personal . that goes tooo. for couples.
March 7th, 2009 at 6:43 pm
i don’t know what to say for you
very full life i think you didn’t found any time to any thing but sex
hope you can find all pleasure in all your life
March 8th, 2009 at 9:25 am
Though sex is not that time-consuming since I don’t have to spend a lot of time looking for it, it’s just one of the many pleasures I enjoy.
March 30th, 2009 at 10:58 am
Very nice, as a male believe me, we naad all the help we can get regarding pleaseing women
March 30th, 2009 at 12:35 pm
I love your site. it really helped.. good tips and lots more. If someday you visit aruba.before april 30 let me know.. Maybe my girl and I can be yor vacation friends and show you @. beautiful Island
April 1st, 2009 at 5:07 am
Thanks. I’m not planning an Arruba trip, but it’s nice to know that I would have friends there if I did.
April 5th, 2009 at 9:26 pm
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April 30th, 2009 at 4:51 pm
A quick message to let you know how much I love your site! Amazing! I discovered it while looking for sites and info on pegging and now I pop back in every chance I get. Thanks to you I am even interested in trying anal sex again as well. As soon as I am able to find a willing partner such as the types you
have so obviously been fortunate enough to explore with. I 100% fully agree with #90 & #91…maybe someday. *sigh*
I look forward to my continued reading and and ‘education’ here….
XOXO
Mia
May 1st, 2009 at 8:31 am
Thanks, Mia. Don’t let a few bad experiences put you off anal sex completely. If you’re lucky enough to find a man who knows enough about anal sex to not try to just push it in and pound away, give it another try. It may not be “amazing” the first time, but neither is vaginal sex for a lot of women.
I think most women would say #90 and #91 are true, which is why women are not as eager to hop into bed as men are. And a lot of men would say the opposite: that they find it difficult to get laid – though they always at least have an orgasm when they do – which is why #93 and #94 are true. It’s a vicious cycle
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June 22nd, 2009 at 5:16 pm
#93 You’re right….but it sure is nice when they do. LOL
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December 7th, 2009 at 10:41 pm
I applaud you’re courage for making this list. I created one myself and hadn’t realized how difficult it is to make one. My confessions are probably a little more vague or innocent in comparison but it’s an interesting feeling to have those intimate details public for the world…
Great job :)
December 8th, 2009 at 6:39 am
Thanks, Melody. It is much harder than you think it would be. I’m looking forward to seeing your completed list. You look so sexy in your pictures, I’m sure it will be interesting :).
December 29th, 2009 at 6:30 pm
LOL @ #13. Completely agree with #99, bad sex is so awkward.
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March 26th, 2010 at 8:06 pm
Hell yeah@#14..
I recently had my first squirting experience, it’s definitely an unexpected thing..but..wow…is it an entirely different sensation..
I actually kind of feel bad that men can’t climax as much and as varied as women…
March 27th, 2010 at 6:20 am
Hi Melody,
I’m curious: would you consider it better or just different? BTW, I think men can orgasm in different ways, too; they just don’t realize and won’t try, especially since they can always orgasm by penile stimulation and ejaculation.
March 28th, 2010 at 8:28 am
Svetlana,
I’d say that it was definitely my most intense orgasm thus far,so ya, better. :) I totally didn’t expect how exhausting it was–not that it’s a bad thing..
Funny though, I still prefer the combining of sensations (prior/during climax) via multitasking..
But I’ve been wondering, I knew it happened because it was so different then anything else (& research), but I’ve been previously told that I often squirt from the inside–so what’s the difference, cause I can’t seem to find too much on the subject?
March 28th, 2010 at 2:18 pm
The difference was that your PC muscles pushed out instead of clenching during orgasm.. G-spot stimulation is supposed to be necessary for female ejaculation, but even that’s in dispute. It’s a phenomenon that just hasn’t been studied much yet because you have a whole lot of scientists still denying that female ejaculation even exists!
March 29th, 2010 at 1:04 am
Wow, so I’ve been squirting this whole time…From different ways of ejaculation to stimulation of all kinds–It definitely needs a lot more research, it’s important to fully grasp what’s going on in our bodies. Hell, I’ll volunteer as a test subject haha..!
Thanks so much for the information–it’s really appreciated!
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June 12th, 2010 at 2:00 pm
Why do you say women don’t need to be skilled at sex? So, all she has to do is lie there and look pretty? Seems kind of egotistical in my view.
June 12th, 2010 at 7:44 pm
No,I didn’t say that all we have to do is “to lie there and look pretty”. I said we need “to be willing and enthusiastic.” Big difference.
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September 15th, 2010 at 9:17 pm
I Think your oral sex topics are really great. Have you ever considered doing a “100 things about me” discussing your oral sex experiences
September 16th, 2010 at 5:28 am
I remember that coming up with 100 things about myself sexually was hard. I don’t think I could come up with 100 things about my oral sex experiences, but I’ll think about it. Thanks for the idea.
December 8th, 2010 at 10:08 pm
What toys do you use when you bend over your man? What has been the limit of the size? I do find starting with a plug or small toy is best, and allows for the eventual larger 10-12 inch accessory
December 9th, 2010 at 9:24 am
The only “toy” I have ever used is a strap-on dildo or Feeldoe. I’ve never used anything larger than about six inches.
January 8th, 2011 at 4:59 am
Damn cute! Nice writing, the list is sweet, funny and sexy.
January 8th, 2011 at 5:50 am
Thank you.
January 8th, 2011 at 11:05 am
Any updates for the list? Has anything changed or been done that is not there?
January 8th, 2011 at 11:28 am
I’ve considered updating the list, but I think I’ll just leave it as is for the time being as a record of my sexual life at the timet that I wrote it.
January 26th, 2011 at 10:23 pm
“a woman don’t have to be skilled at sex” ??? lol
Do you just lay there like dead log in bed? Are you jealous of asian woman? We know how to sex your white men.Are you jealous of us? Does turn you on?
January 26th, 2011 at 10:44 pm
“a woman don’t have to be skilled at sex” ?
Do you just lay there like dead log? Lol.Asian woman love
to sex the white men.We do good job too and skilled.Does it turn on?
January 27th, 2011 at 6:51 am
White men like Asian women because they are tend to be petite and are usually more compliant than white women and definitely more than black women lol. As for Asian women’s skill in bed, I’ll take your word for it, but it definitely doesn’t turn me on.
You misunderstood what I said about women not needing to be skilled in bed. (I also added that er should be willing and enthusiastic.) A man will still probably have an orgasm even with a virgin. Women, on the other hand, are less likely to have an orgasm unless the man has some basic sexual skills.
January 28th, 2011 at 2:26 am
Svetlana, what do you mean by “Asian” women? Please clarify the point. Indian, Indonesian, Filipino, Kazakh, Palestinian, Iranian women are all Asian women, are they not? Are they all “petite and compliant”? if you think so, you should have another look, I think.
January 28th, 2011 at 6:49 am
I was partly reacting to the insulting assertions by the commenter. I didn’t even post her bigoted, racial insults directed at me. From what I’ve read on the internet, however, those are the qualities American men desire in Asian women, especially compliance.
Naturally, not all Asian women have those qualities (maybe not even most), but a lot of American men seem to think they do in comparison with American women. I suspect some of them get a surprise on the compliance part, though, once they’re actually married.
January 28th, 2011 at 8:51 am
I’m not directing any kind of abuse at you. However, and frankly, as an Asian, I find it insulting when Americans call only East Asians of Mongolian stock “Asians”. It’s a mix of intellectual laziness and subconscious arrogance.
January 28th, 2011 at 9:46 am
Intellectual laziness, absolutely, but how does arrogance figure in? Since the Middle East and the Indian subcontinent have historically had more Western ties than East Asia, I think many Americans think of them somehow as less “Asian” and more as separate regions.
It’s just a lack of knowledge. No one can be expected to appreciate or understand a region as well as the people who live there or are from there. Americans don’t understand Africa, Europe, South America, etc., etc. either. Like most people, Americans are self-centered.
January 28th, 2011 at 10:17 am
Arrogance, as in “I can’t be bothered to find out anything about you.” Just as in the term you used there, “Middle East.” To anyone who doesn’t think they live in the centre, it’s West Asia. Just as you’re from Eastern Europe, and I’m from South Asia.
I don’t want to hijack your thread, but it’s just one of my trigger topics. Sorry:)
January 28th, 2011 at 11:31 am
Everyone sees things from their own perspective. To Asians, Afghanistan is in West Asia; to Americans, it’s in the Middle East. Why should Americans adopt a terminology that doesn’t mean anything from their geographical perspective? I don’t see how putting something in terms that are meaningful to you qualifies as arrogance. Everyone does that, or they should.
I would also point out that the commenter seemed to me to be using “Asian” to mean East Asian women, so she is as intellectually lazy and arrogant as I. I was responding to her comments in her own terms.
January 29th, 2011 at 1:07 am
“To Asians, Afghanistan is in West Asia; to Americans, it’s in the Middle East.”
Actually, this isn’t true at all, in any way, as is the statement that “(e)veryone sees things from their own perspective.” But I don’t want to argue with you on this. I admire your work too much to get bogged down in a discussion which has nothing to do with your blog, per se.
As for “Mindy Wu”, I strongly doubt she is who she claims to be. It’s extremely likely that she’s just a random troll trying to yank your chain.
January 29th, 2011 at 9:12 am
I think you’re contradicting yourself, but I agree that it’s not relevant to the subject matter of Sex Secrets.
January 29th, 2011 at 8:05 pm
Svetlana,
I apologize if i touch nerves,but im my own woman.I leave my native China to get away from unhappy lifestyle there.I emigrate here to midwest united states.I find american men to be very considerate to me and i enjoy the gorgeous white men.Don’t get wrong im not a self-hating asian woman.I love asian man too and have respect for.Whenever i with white man i sometimes get stares and anger from white woman,not all some.Anyway i was told most white man prefer to be with white woman above all else,so looking at previous comment of mine im sorry to offend.
no need worry about asian woman,please forgive.
January 29th, 2011 at 8:08 pm
and my typing and english articulate still not the best sorry.
January 29th, 2011 at 8:27 pm
and hi bill nice to meet fellow asian man here.I sorry i go off the topic Svetlana i won’t write again if you wish,back to sex.Wa ki liao
June 5th, 2011 at 9:52 am
Hey I think it’s great that you are open enough to share your past experiences with us. I enjoyed reading this post and love knowing that people can still enjoy sexual experiences nowadays it’s like a job to some people.Keep up the good work and can’t wait to read more.Thank You
June 5th, 2011 at 1:43 pm
You’re welcome. Keep reading :).
June 14th, 2011 at 5:49 am
Hey Svetlana how can I email you personally,I promise nothing unprofessional will be exchanged just need some insight and knowledge.Thank you
June 14th, 2011 at 6:08 am
Click the “Contact” tab.
June 24th, 2011 at 3:10 am
u seem sexy…
i am intersted in sex very much..i am fantasised abt it…
is 4.8 inches long penis is satisfied by women??
June 24th, 2011 at 5:22 am
It depends on the woman.
June 24th, 2011 at 6:47 am
thank you….
ur site is very useful to get sex education….
wats ur view on male and female masturbation
June 24th, 2011 at 9:23 am
It’s necessary if you don’t have a sex partner.
June 24th, 2011 at 11:39 am
ok…thank u…..
will u be satisfied with 4.8 inches penis….??
its just a opinion….??
can u tell please…
June 24th, 2011 at 1:29 pm
If it’s thick, I might be.
June 25th, 2011 at 1:46 am
thank you….the girth of my penis is 4.2 inches….
why havent u tried FMF threesome…..??
June 25th, 2011 at 5:35 am
soryy if i asked u wrong…..
what will u prefer??
u being top of a man or man being top of you
June 25th, 2011 at 8:40 am
On top of me.
September 1st, 2011 at 5:48 am
90 does seem to be true for most men, and 91 is true for everyone, of course. As a man I find 93 and 94 to be incredibly frustrating though. I’m picky about the sort of people I sleep with, so by the time it gets to that point in a relationship and I figure out that a woman follows those rules and makes no effort to improve her skills, I get very disappointed. I’m constantly working to improve my skills, to reach new heights for both of us. Women seem to really appreciate it but all I’ve ever gotten back from a partner is eagerness with only very small attempts to get better at sex. I try to encourage tactfully and I like to think that I don’t push the issue, but after a few times I stop mentioning it and it wears away on the relationship until I give up. Just bad luck so far, I suppose. Perhaps this difference between men and women would even out more if men didn’t have such low expectations from sex.
September 1st, 2011 at 3:39 pm
I think you have had bad luck so far. Many women are intensely interested in becoming better at bed. Cosmo has made its reputation on those sort of articles. My point was just that women don’t have to be sexually skilled. Many men are thrilled just to get laid, and since they nearly always have an orgasm, are satisfied with that.
September 7th, 2011 at 5:45 pm
I enjoy prostate stimulation alot & emotionally the feeling of giving my self to my wife it;s hot she enjoys it I’ve learned how it feels to be penetrated & I think it has made me more of a sensitave lover…I love to have anal sex with her to …I’m starting to wonder of woman perfer pegging there husbands or boyfriends instead of a oral sex. I seen a sight where more woman perfer this… Thanks svetlana
January 9th, 2012 at 12:41 pm
I’ve never had an orgasm from penetrative sex. It’s appearantly called “delayed orgasm”. I’ve explained this to the few women I’ve had sex with and I never thought of it as a problem because I’d just end the session by touching myself for a few minutes. What’s your opinion about that? And what can I do to cum faster as a man?
Another thing. My ex once deepthroated me without warning me. She had not done this earlier during the three years we were together. I was turned off and lost my erection due to my hard penis bending and it felt a bit like it being chewed on. Is this due to bad technique or me simply not liking it. What do you think about not warning your partner about doing things like that?
January 9th, 2012 at 2:44 pm
You don’t have an orgasm from vaginal sex because you’re not stimulated enough, but why that is, I don’t know. It would be a problem for me. I wouldn’t stay with a man who couldn’t have an orgasm during sexual intercourse with me.
I think it sounds like bad technique. A penis should go down the throat smoothly and should certainly not hurt the man – just the opposite. Your ex probably wanted to give you a nice surprise, which is why she didn’t tell you. It’s hard to talk with your mouth full anyway.
January 11th, 2012 at 10:12 pm
Thank you for your reply. Do you have any advice on how to climax faster as a man?
January 12th, 2012 at 4:45 am
Tighten your buttocks and thrust harder and faster.
January 22nd, 2012 at 12:18 pm
An article on delayed ejaculation is at http://www.goodinbed.com/miniguides/2010/04/delayed-ejaculation-de.php. Somewhere on the web I have seen a program for treatment of it, probably an e-book, for sale.
February 15th, 2012 at 11:06 am
@Patrik Weibull I’ve found different methods of breathing can make a big difference on whether I orgasm sooner or later. Could be something to experiment with.
March 17th, 2012 at 2:22 pm
Fun Post :) Maybe I should make one just to see if I can ? :)
March 17th, 2012 at 2:40 pm
I was inspired by another blogger. Give it a try. It’ll be fun, but it’s harder than you think :).
March 19th, 2012 at 1:53 am
ok I did it! It really was very difficult the first 50 were easy enough but the last 50 I really had to dig deep ;) But i did get them all. ALl 100 of them and it was a fun thing to do :)
March 19th, 2012 at 6:59 am
Great! I almost added that you didn’t necessarily need to do one hundred, but now I’m glad I didn’t :).
April 16th, 2012 at 2:12 pm
I started doing my sister when we were 12 and 13, my wife and I talk about the experiance it now and that makes us have good prolong sex,,,,,