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10 Cunnilingus Tips and Tricks

woman-having-orgasmSex surveys show that men receive fellatio more often than women receive cunnilingus. One reason for that could be is that some men are not that confident about their ability to please a woman orally. Cunnilingus isn’t rocket science, but it isn’t completely instinctive either. These ten cunnilingus tips and tricks will allow any man to go down on a woman like he’s been there before and knows what he’s doing.

1) Massaging her inner thighs without touching the vaginal area is sure to get her turned on. Use your hands to massage the insides of her thighs, getting tantalizingly close to her vagina, but pulling back before going all the way.

2) Get her vaginal lips engorged before touching her clitoris. Kiss and lick from her inner thighs all the way up to her labia. Leaving your tongue soft and jaw relaxed, try licking her from the vaginal opening up to her clitoris and following the outer edges of her vagina along both sides. Work on her vaginal lips until they’re super engorged. The labia often get ignored, so when attention is paid to them, they are extremely sensitive.

4) Use smooth, steady, slow rhythmic licks to begin with. You can speed up as she becomes more and more aroused.

5) Soften your tongue and lick around the clitoral area rather than aggressively attacking the clitoris. Varying the pattern of licking is also important.

3) The majority of nerve endings in a woman’s vagina are around the opening and within the first two inches inside. Stimulate them with your tongue by inserting it into her vaginal opening and moving your tongue in and out, as well as in circles around the insideg.

6) Don’t just lick the clitoris. Suck it, too. Suck the cliorist into your mouth a little while licking, and then release it. Then do it again. Be sure to use this technique only after she is really aroused, but avoid using it during her orgasms. The sensation could prove too intense for her to take.

7) If she pushes against you while you’re going down on her, do whatever you’re doing harder. If she pulls away from you, do it lighter. When he screams “YES!” keep doing exactly what you’re doing, but harder and faster.

8) Once you find something that works, don’t change to something different unless you are moving to something that you know works even better.

9) Moan or hum while going down on your partner. The reverberations from your voice will feel like a vibrator to her

10) Use your middle and ring fingers on her G-spot rather than your middle and index finger. These fingers are longer, and when you curl them in a “come hither” motion, they hit the G-spot just right.

These ten tips and tricks are simple and easy. Women are different, so not every single one may work with your partner, but most of them will. To start with, just pick out one or two techniques and give them a try the next time you go down on her.  She’ll be glad you did.

Oral sex done right can take a woman to new heights of sexual pleasure, but cunnilingus is a delicate skill, requiring knowledge and technique to get it right. To discover the oral sex secrets to make her climax more often, even if she’s never had an orgasm before, click here!.

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