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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Make Love Like a Pro with These 6 Stellar Moves

If your sex life is lacking a certain special something, try one of these six stellar moves, says Nadia Langworthy.

When you first start dating a guy, things in the bedroom are so fun and exciting, right? He’s a new body and you have some discovering to do together. You (hopefully) let each other know what you generally like and dislike. Sex seems different every time, even though it may not be. But that doesn’t matter, because it still feels spicy. You’ve tried new things, repeated them, and have gotten good at it.

However, time passes and maybe your bedroom routine is getting a little … routine. Failing to spice things up in the bedroom can lead to boredom and can make us feel like we’re having sex because we have to, not because we want to. Sex turns into a chore when it becomes stale. So to combat this, trying new things in between the sheets—or out of them—is often a good solution. He’s happy, you’re happy, we’re all happy.

Venturing to try new things, especially when it comes to sex, can be scary, daunting, and even a little embarrassing. But with good communication and a desire to turn up the heat, you and your partner can be well on your way to setting your bedroom (or other rooms) ablaze. Read more

6 Hot Blow Job Techniques

Licking LipsDoing the same old thing every time you give a blow job will quickly get boring to your man, so it’s important that you vary your technique. That said, the most important technique you need to give a great blow job is not a technique, but an attitude. Show your enthusiasm! Men don’t just want you to suck their penisrs; they want you to love doing it! If you act like giving a blow job is literally a job for you, all the techniques in the world won’t help much. On the other hand, if you enjoy giving fellatio and show it, these six techniques can make your blow jobs more fun and exciting for your man. Continue reading

4 Ways to Make a Man Climax Quickly

Satisfied manMaking love all night long is great when you have the time and energy, but sometimes you may just want him to hurry up and finish.  Maybe the kids are on their way home from school, you have to hurry off to work, or maybe he’s just taking too long and you need to get some sleep. Whatever the reason, you need an repertoire of tricks to satisfy your man when you have other itmes on your agenda.  Here are four ways to make a man  climax quickly. Continue reading

Male Brains Are Wired to Choose Sex Over Food

Males can suppress their hunger in order to focus on finding a mate, a new scientific study of a species of worm has shown.

Male brains are wired to make them ignore food and look for a mate instead, according to new research.

The study by the University of Rochester Medical Centre points to how subtle changes in the brain’s circuitry dictate differences in behaviour between males and females. Read more

A Little Rough Sex?

Sarah Rae Vargas gives tips on how to explore BDSM without doing anything too painful or scary.

3 Tricks to Get Your Ex Back

Getting dumped can be devastating. If you want to try to save the relationship, Jennifer Lawless tells you how to go about it.

A break-up can cause emotional trauma and distress. Almost everyone has experienced a break-up once in their lives, and most will admit that the experience can be devastating. That’s why so many people want get back their ex, not only to escape the emotional pain, but because the relationship is worth giving another attempt. Here are three tricks to get back the ex sooner that you may think possible. Read more

The Science of Hook-ups: 5 Shocking Facts About One-Night Stands

Discover the surprising ways your brain (and a woman’s hips) play a role in casual sex encounters.

It’s a familiar scene: a thriving nightlife, a club or maybe a wine bar where glasses are clinking and singles are mingling before drifting off into the shadows — two by two. It’s not the perfect picture of romance, but when you’re caught up in the moment, a warm body feels like a fair substitute for love, right?

Hooking up is just a reality of the dating scene. But since when did the hookup scene become the place to find love? While you may think you’re just living the carefree single life, your brain is influencing your decisions more than you might want to admit. Read more

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