About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Why Women Are Fantasizing About This Type of Threesome

What does the Eiffel Tower have to do with threesomes?

“The Eiffel Tower is such a thing,” says Rachel* (names have been changed to protect sources’ privacy), a 25-year-old recent college graduate. To be clear, Rachel isn’t referring to the iconic Parisian landmark: she’s referring to a slang term for a sex position where a woman is on all fours and giving oral sex to one man, while another man has sex with her from behind. What makes it an Eiffel Tower is when the two men high-five each other, forming the point of what is basically a squirmy, sloppy triangle. “It’s one of the best parts,” she gushes. Read more

8 Simple Ways to Guarantee an Epic Orgasm

Tatiana Perez shares eight simple ways to guarantee an epic orgasm.

1. Focus.

It may sound kinda dumb, but I told you these tricks would be stupid! ;) If your goal is to have an epic orgasm, you’ve gotta want it. Tell yourself you’re giving your parter the best damn luvin’ s/he’s every received, contract those pelvic muscles, and voilà! You’ll be climaxing like never before. Read more

The Magical Power of Semen and How It Can Hijack Your Brain

Adina Ribers says that semen may be able to hijack your brain if you’re a woman.

Menno Schilthuizen wrote an amazing book call In Nature’s Nether Regions where he explains how the chemical cocktail found in semen can hijack the female brain. The study has only been performed in insects so far, but who knows, maybe soon they will uncover the same magical effects of semen on the human brain? Read more

10 Urban Legends About Sex That Turned Out to Be True

Out of all the urban legends about sex out there, these ten turned out to be true.

The world is chock-full of urban legends. They can be scary, mysterious, or even hilarious. However, they’re just legends, so they can’t possibly be true, right?

As it turns out, some of these urban legends are actually 100% true. Interestingly, a lot of them are about sex—if this doesn’t make you uneasy about sleeping with somebody, we don’t know what will. Read more

12 Tips for the Most MFM Threesome Pleasure

MFM (male-female-male) threesomes can be fun for all involved but like anything in life, there are rules and tips to fully enjoy them.

We all agree a threesome can be exciting. The MMF threesome is a particular treat for all those involved. For one, no girl refuses a serving of four caressing hands and an extra sausage. While the two guys get themselves a good taste of real life, interactive porn. One they both watch and participate in.

Rules and tips for the most MMF threesome pleasure Read more

Girth vs. Length and How to Touch a Clitoris

KarenLee Poter interviews a sexologist about the topics of s penis girth vs. length and how to touch a clitoris.

16 Women Reveal Their Go-To Moves for Getting Their Partners to Climaz When They’re Ready to Wrap Things Up In Bed

What to do when you’re ready to call it a night and get some sleep, but your partner keeps going and going like the Energizer Bunny? Sixteen women reveals their go-to moves for getting their partners to climax when they’re ready to wrap things up in bed.


“If I touch his nipples it speeds things up so fast due to the extra stimulation, I have to time it carefully though because if I touch them and play too quickly after starting then I am the one wishing he lasted longer! It is like my secret panic button.” Read more

Recent Comments

  • Svetlana Ivanova: Depends on the woman.
  • Fox2: Would that be most probably wouldn’t feel it? I have seen you say elsewhere that less than 5″ means...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Some may, but most probably won’t. For some women in long-term relationships, penetration is...
  • Fox2: Not sure if commenting is working at the moment. Thanks but even though these positions will help maximise my...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: These positions help maximize what you have, whatever that is.
  • Fox: Would these positions help with a penis 4-4.5inches long and around 4inches around? Or do you need to be packing...
  • BOB: FUR
  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
  • Jane Doe: This article not only implies that all men want submissive partners, it tells women to take on a persona....
  • Svetlana Ivanova: It isn’t misogynistic at all. It’s realistic and sex-positive.