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Cosmopolitan advises a woman whose boyfriend’s penis chokes her during 69.
Q: My guy likes to be on top when we do 69, but I feel like I’m being choked. How can I make it more comfortable?
A:When your guy is on top during simultaneous oral sex, try pleasing him without taking his entire shaft in your mouth. Lick and kiss the head of his penis, or run your tongue up and down the length of the shaft paying special attention to the supersensitive frenulum — the thin ridge on the underside of the penis. Read more
A one-night stand might turn into a serious relationship, a new study says.
Finally, science steps up to prove what my generation, and the generations before us, have been saying all along: Hookup culture isn’t killing relationships.
University of Iowa sociologist Anthony Paik’s survey of 642 adults in Chicago initially found that “average relationship quality was higher for individuals who waited until things were serious to have sex compared to those who became sexually involved in ‘hookups,’ ‘friends with benefits,’ or casual dating relationships,” according to a press release. But when he controlled for people who had zero interest in having a relationship, that difference disappeared. “Couples who became sexually involved as friends or acquaintances and were open to a serious relationship ended up just as happy as those who dated and waited.” Says Paik: Read more
Mike McD has put together a slide show of the 100 sexiest female athletes of all time from speed skater Anni Friesinger to javelin thrower Leryn Franco.
Hot athletes are fascinating. With models, their talent is looking attractive and nothing else. With hot athletes, not only are they beautiful, but they can also kick your butt in whatever sport they play. That’s awesome.
Twenty years ago we didn’t really have hot athletes. Attractive women didn’t gravitate towards sports. Now it’s hard to name a famous female athlete that’s not good looking. That’s probably a sad commentary on our culture, but I’ll leave the pontificating to Rick Reilly on that matter and instead celebrate the most beautiful women ever to grace the sports world.
So I have gone through over 30 sports and spanned nearly 50 years to find the sexiest women who have ever played a sport. Some you know, some you’ll learn about for the very first time, but all are fine as hell. Read more
When it comes to kissing women, there’s more than just her mouth to think about. Here are our favorite places to be kissed.
Chances are good that you are not using one of the best tools in your sexual arsenal to its full potential. This secret weapon is your mouth. We’re not just talking about oral sex here, although you should be giving her oral pleasure on a regular basis if you want to be a good lover, and we’re going to go beyond kissing on the mouth in this article, which you should have mastered by now if you want to kiss her anywhere else.
Your mouth can be applied to various other parts of her body by kissing, licking, nibbling, biting, and sucking. Anywhere you touch her with your hands will most likely feel even better when stimulated by a warm, wet mouth. When it comes to kissing women, some of their favorite places are obvious, while others are frequently overlooked. Read more
The Sexademic gives advice to a woman who wants an orgasm from penetrative sex, and suggests that pressure may be better than friction.
… If you want to experiment with vaginal stimulation, keep in mind that the vagina responds more to pressure than to friction. That whole in-n-out, pumpy pumpy penetrative sex usually provides more friction than pressure. Try having a partner take his fingers and make slow wiping and pressing motions inside of your vagina. (Remember: the outer 1/3 of the vagina tends to be the most sensitive). During penetrative sex, instead of thrusting, your partner can try moving his hips in a vertical circular motion…like he’s painting circles with his hips. Read more
I mention the above technique in my post How to Properly Screw a Woman. Another technique to try is the Friction Zone Technique, which is more of an up-and-down motion. If you’re a woman who doesn’t have orgasms from penetrative sex, have your partner try the techniques in these two posts instead of the old “in-n-out.” You may be in for an amazing surprise!
Monica Shores explains why casual sex can be good for women and doesn’t always emotionally scar us. I don’t think she recommends this, however.
Casual sex and one-night stands are almost always framed as damaging to women, particularly young women. In recent years, writers like Laura Sessions Stepp and Wendy Shalit have issued dire warnings about the alleged dangers of sex outside of committed relationships.
Let’s call this rhetoric what it is: a tired repeat of the sexist double standards that have haunted women for centuries. (The subtitle of Shalit’s second book, “It’s Not Bad To Be Good,” clearly articulates the regressive notion that chastity and sexual restraint renders one “good.”) Read more
I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. My sexual history and preferences are detailed in my post 100 Things about Me Sexually.Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor.
I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. My sexual history and preferences are detailed in my post