About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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The Secret Every Man Should Know to Make a Woman Orgasm

The female orgasm can be a puzzle for men.  Jordan, writer for Comedy Centrals The Nightly Show, tells how he cracked the code.

Much like with stand-up, in the bedroom, I had beginner’s luck that gave me a false impression of my abilities. In college, I hooked up with a woman who lost her shit at my slightest touch. How could I not think I was truly the gangster of love? Alas, other women didn’t experience complete particle reversal by simply having me blow in their ear. It got worse. Much worse.

“Just finish. I wasn’t going to come anyway…” has to be the most soul-crushing thing I’ve ever had a woman tell me. Not only did I feel horribly inadequate, but I also felt like a knuckle-dragging cretin. I was inside her, for Pete’s sake! Why weren’t the women I bedded immediately spasming in ecstasy? I mean, didn’t I put my sex part in her sex part? Wasn’t I pumping away like I had seen in all those Skinemax movies? Obviously, I had more work to do. Read more

Top 10 Things That Turn a Woman On

Wing Girl Marni tells men tthe top en things that turn women on.

7 Times When Casual Sex Is Actually a Good Idea

Even if you don’t believe in casual sex,  Tess Barker says there are seven times when it makes perfect sense.

Casual sex gets such a bad rap. It can set you up for disappointment or bring you to the bedrooms of men who you normally wouldn’t want to share an elevator with, yes. But it can also lower stress and lift self-esteem, according to research conducted at Cornell University. So how do you know when a one-night stand is going to bring you bliss—or just make you blush the next day? Experts say it’s all about your personality: If you know you’re the type to get off on booty calls, then own it, lady! Read more

9 Gym Stretches That Are Also AMAZING Sex Positions

Aly Walansky describes nine gym stretches that are also amazing sex positions.

We have a constant love/hate relationship with the gym. We drag ourselves to our workout, looking for any excuse possible not to go – only to be so glad we invested the time once we’re done. Our gym stretches are about more than fitness, though. We chatted with a fitness expert, a sexpert, and an award-winning adult star, who all agreed that gym stretches are directly related to being fabulous in bed! Behold … your newest sex positions! (You’re welcome.) Read more

Better Fellatio: How to Give a Hum Job

HummerUsing the same blow job  moves every time will quickly get boring to your partner, so it’s important that you vary your techniques. A hum job or “hummer” is a fellatio technique where you literally hum or moan while going down on a guy. Many women do this spontaneously or because they know that guys like it. The next step is to understand why guys like it, and to use that knowledge to make your blow jobs more pleasurable for your partner. Continue reading

Is It Possible to Have a Happy Open Marriage?

Nothing comes between Jenny Block and her husband,  except maybe her live-in lover, Jemma. Louise France talks to Jenny Block about her open marriage.

Sunday brunch at a dim sum restaurant in Seattle with the local polyamory group. I’m sitting between two men. One has a T-shirt that reads ‘Two’s Company’. The other’s wearing the slogan ‘Screw Abstinence’. Welcome to the neighbourhood ‘sex-positive’ community, a club where anything goes, just so long as it’s between consenting adults and latex is involved.

They’re a friendly bunch (well, I guess you’d have to be. It doesn’t do to be stand-offish and polyamorous). There is E, who has known she was polyamorous since she was 18; then J, who first discussed this kind of lifestyle with his wife back in 1962 (they’re still together); and a woman who describes herself as temple priestess, sex educator and counsellor, which must keep her busy. Read more

3 Powerful Sex Techniques You Can Use Tonight

For men who want to please their womsn in bed, Amy Richardson has three powerful sex techniques that they can use tonight.

Most men would like to be better in bed, and fortunately, it isn’t that hard. It doesn’t require incredible stamina or flexibility, or memorizing the Kama Sutra. With a few tweaks in what you’re already doing, you can be the lover that you’ve always wanted to be. Here are three powerful sex techniques that you can use tonight. One is for oral sex, the second uses your finger, and the last is a thrusting technique that she will love. Read more

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