About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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What Should You Have Done in Bed by Now?

What should you have done in bed by now? A sex columnist has compiled a f**k-it list for you to complete.

Make your own porn

Difficulty rating: 4/10

There’s nothing sexier than making and watching your own xxx films; according to a poll by dating site BeNaughty, it’s the activity couples find most arousing. But perfect performance begins with smart preparation. Make sure you have all the props to hand: condoms, lube or anything more, um, specialist. An intermission just as you reach the good part is a certain mood killer. And light it well: use lamps with nothing stronger than a 40-watt bulb, set to the side of the bed/sofa/kitchen worktop. Overhead lighting will magnify every flaw. Start with a test shot and tell her how great she looks – she needs to feel comfortable to perform at her best. Otherwise, forget a sequel. Read more

5 Great Positions for Deep Penetration

Standing DoggyWhen vaginal penetration is deep, both men and women tend to enjoy sex more. The feeling of longer, deeper strokes can be really exciting and pleasurable. There are many sex positions that you can try to get deeper penetration. These five great positions for deep penetration may be positions you are already using, just not to the extent needed to reach full penetration. Continue reading

Be a Tease: Give a Lap Dance

Strap on your stilettos because it’s time for class – lap dance class.

Have you ever fantasized about transfixing your guy with a slow striptease? Do you want to tap into your inner diva and master the art of seduction?

As the sex experts at PleasureMechanics.com, we hear from men and women all over the world who want to improve their sex lives and become better lovers. One of the most common questions is how to initiate sex. Women especially want to know how to make the leap from everyday life into the erotic realm of pleasure.

Lap dancing is one way to grab your lover’s attention and slip into a sexy zone where you can connect, get intimate and savor one another’s touch. Here’s your guide to mastering the basics of lap dancing for your lover. Prepare to become an irresistible vixen! Read more

The 12 Different Kinds of Sex Defined

Tammy Black defines the twelve kinds of sex.

I got to thinking; how many kinds of sex are there? Oh, come on, you know you were wondering too!

Let us begin.

First Time Sex — It’s usually clumsy at best and unless you are a good communicator (screaming God’s name doesn’t count) then you will most likely not get the most satisfying result. That’s politically correct talk for: you won’t reach your highest peak. The thought is usually a lot more rewarding than the actual act. Read more

4 BDSM Relationship Tips for Beginners

Elizabeth Mitchell gives four BDSM relationship tips for beginners.

So you devoured all three Fifty Shades of Grey books, and now you think you might be interested in a BDSM relationship yourself? Before you go out and find your very own Christian Grey, peep these tips to ensure your safety. Read more

4 Fellatio Techniques You Need to Try

Funny Girl Sex Guide demonstrates four fellatio techniques you need to try.

How to Finger a Girl for the First Time

FingeringSo, you think a girl is going to let you finger her. Fingering can be very pleasurable to a girl. It can even give her an orgasm. On the other hand, if you don’t do it correctly, nothing will happen, and you might even hurt her.  Fingering a girl isn’t rocket science, but you can’t just go shoving your fingers into her either. To have the best experience for both of you, follow these five tips for fingering a girl for the first time.  Continue reading

Recent Comments

  • Svetlana Ivanova: Probably not.
  • Marc: Nice new look! But the old one was a little more feminine! ;)
  • SmallMulder: When women talk about liking it deep, typically how many inches would this be? Would a 4.5inch penis be...
  • Old Guy: It depends on the woman. For example, if a woman grew up being told sex is not something good girls do, she...
  • Al: I’ve read in many places that girls can never like this kind of thing, and may only do it out of great...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Have fun!
  • James Scholes: Great advice. Were beginners at this.
  • Svetlana Ivanova: A man has a more direct route to an anal orgasm than a woman – his prostate. Otherwise,...
  • steve: Can the same be applied to a man and strap -on wearing woman?
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Some women are definitely uncomfortable with that.
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