About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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10 Rules for Being Friends with Benefits

If you’re interested in a friends with benefits relationship, follow these ten rules for success.

Rule 1: DO think twice about hooking up with your neighbor.
There are, without a doubt, many pros to having a FWB living in close proximity: Your walk of shame is substantially less embarrassing, you don’t have to worry about driving home after one too many glasses of wine, and usually you’ll be able to tell if he’s home. On the other hand, when the reality of how your sex buddy spends his time away from you—and vice versa—sets in, that geographic proximity could very well be the downfall of your casual relationship, says Rachel Russo, a dating, relationship, and image coach based in New York City. And after several 3 A.M. sightings of his empty parking space in your building’s garage, you’ll start to wonder how things got so complicated. Read more

10 Cunnilingus Tips and Tricks

These ten cunnilingus tips and tricks will allow any man to satisfy his woman orally, says Amy Richardson.

Sex surveys show that men receive fellatio more often than women receive cunnilingus. One reason for that could be is that some men are not that confident about their ability to please a woman orally. Cunnilingus isn’t rocket science, but it isn’ to t completely instinctive either. These ten cunnilingus tips and tricks will allow any man to go down on a woman like he’s been there before and knows what he’s doing. Read more

Can Female Orgasm Be Triggered by the Scent of a Mushroom?

The scent of a South Pacific mushroom can apparently cause orgasm in women.

There is a legend, handed down through the generations from a source shrouded in the mists of time. Appearing mysteriously, in varying forms, in far flung regions of the globe, but particularly the South Pacific, telling a similar story various cultures speak of a mushroom with aphrodisiac effects on women. Read more

How to Get Threesome Sex

Hot Chick Chelsea gives men tips for making their wife or girlfriend comfortable with trying a threesome.

20 Women Reveal the Pick-Up Lines That Actually Worked on Them

Twenty women reveal the pick-up lines that actually worked on them.

Approaching a beautiful woman is one of the most intimidating things a man can do. That’s probably why so many guys do verbal cartwheels trying to come up with opening lines that simultaneously display wit, charm, and flattery.

But here’s a little secret: You don’t have to work that hard. We asked real women to share the conversation starters that worked on them, and you may be surprised at their answers. Some of the openers were cheeky, some were simple, and many weren’t even “lines” at all. Read more

6 Fellatio Tips and Tricks

sexy-couplehMost men love fellatio. Some men even prefer a blow job to sexual intercourse. Since oral sex is such a big deal for men, women ought to know how to do it well.  When you are able to give your man a great blow job, you will gain a power over him that you never thought possible.  He will be constantly thinking of you and begging for that pleasure again. These six fellatio tips and tricks will help make your blow jobs unforgettable. Continue reading

Sex with Circumcised and UnCircumcised Penis: Which Is Better?

Amanda Chatel gives her perspective about the difference between sex with a circumcised and an uncircumcised penis.

The first time I came into real-life contact with an uncircumcised penis was several years ago. Up until then it was something I’d only seen online as some bizarre curiosity to me, an American woman.

A friend would ask, “Have you seen an uncircumcised penis?” Then, we’d gather around a computer as the images were brought up, and we expressed our disgust.

It’s not like penises are in the running for any sort of beauty award but the way an uncircumcised penis looked to us — early 20-something American women who very rarely come across them in our sex lives (although more parents are opting against circumcision these days) — was a horrifying specimen. Read more

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