About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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3 Techniques for More Clitoral Stimulation During Intercourse

Jennifer Lawless, author of Tantric Sex: A Guide to Tantra Lovemaking Secrets and Practices, shares three techniques to increase clitoral stimulation during sexual inteecourse.

Most women enjoy vaginal penetration, but only around 30% of women climax through vaginal penetration alone. Although most of the rest can have orgasms from manual or oral sex, many would still like to have an orgasm with their man inside them. More women could have orgasms during intercourse if their men provided more clitoral stimulation. The basic in and out thrusting practiced by most men doesn’t provide enough clitoral stimulation for most women. In order for women to have orgasms during intercourse, men need to make a few, simple adjustments to their technique. Here are three techniques to provide more clitoral stimulation during intercourse: Read more

5 Things Men Think Women Like in Bed – But Don’t

Men often believe women like these five things, but they don’t, says Lindsay Tigar.

You all have certain go-to moves in the bedroom that one girlfriend acted like she loved, so you’ve tried it with every girlfriend since then. While it might seem like something that really gets women going, it’s important to actually pay attention if it’s doing the trick, or, well, boring her (or worse, freaking her out). Just like every new person you have sex with makes for a different experience, new bodies respond in varying ways to positions, techniques and moves, and as a great lover, it’s important to always shape your habits to fit your lover’s needs. (Just as they’ll do the same with you.) Read more

Tips for Making Love to Older Women

Porn star Nina Hartley offers men tips on making love with older women.

11 Orgasm Hacks Women Need to Try

Lane Moore has eleven orgasm hacks that women need to try. Number four will get you there for , she says.

Orgasms, like a coffee shop that knows exactly how much foam you want in your latte, can be elusive. You have a general understanding of what you’re supposed to do down there, but when it comes to partnered sex, you just can’t make it click. Cosmopolitan.com spoke with authors, sex educators, and more to bring you these 11 tips for hacking your orgasm.

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15 Things Women Want Men to Know About Breasts

You may love breasts, but how much do you really know about them if you don’t have a pair of your own? Hannah Smothers reveals the fifteen things that women want men to know about breasts.

That famous line from a book by a man (Tale of Two Cities) about how “it was the best of times, it was the worst of times,” or whatever is, in my opinion, actually about having boobs. There are such wonderful benefits to having a pair of playthings affixed to your chest. But then there are the dark moments (PERIODS). Either way, having boobies is like being part of a fun, exclusive club and I wouldn’t trade it for the world. Read more

6 Tips for Men to Last Longer in Bed

Premature EjaculationPremature ejaculation is a problem that many, if not most, men experience at some time. Even if when it’s not a chronic problem, it can happen with a new partner or after a dry spell. Premature ejaculation makes sex less enjoyable for both you and your partner. She cannot have an orgasm if you’re a “minute man,” and you don’t get to enjoy having your penis inside her vagina for very long. These six easy tips can help men last longer in bed. You don’t have to learn anything, or practice. You can use them tonight if you get lucky. Continue reading

The 12 Most Romantic Sex Positions

Sex therapist Vanessa Marin reveals the twelve most romantic sex positions, some of which you probably haven’t tried.

We’re all for supercharged quickies and over-the-top acrobatics, but sometimes all you want is some good old fashioned sex. It’s nice to slow down, actually look into each other’s eyes, and feel connected. Whether you’re celebrating an anniversary, reuniting after time apart, or just feeling sweet, here are the 12 most romantic sex positions. Read more

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