A little spanking session in the bedroom is a quick, easy, and affordable way to spice things up, but there are important physical and emotional safety issues.

A little spanking session in the bedroom is a quick, easy, and affordable way to spice things up (look ma, nothing but hands!). But as with anything involving painful pleasure, there are always important safety issues — both physical and emotional — that you should familiarize yourself with first, before you go swatting away like gangbusters. Consider this the kinder, gentler way to spank: Read more

If a vaginal orgasm or a clitoral climax is good, then a combination vaginal orgasm and clitoral climax is even better, says Molly Triffin. She gives twelve tips to achieve a simultaneous vaginal and clitoral orgasm -even how to do it yourself.

If an orgasm is like a scoop of ice cream—delicious, satisfying, and finished way too soon—then a combination vaginal orgasm and clitoral climax is a hot fudge sundae with whipped cream and a cherry on top. Sexperts Sadie Allison, PhD, founder of TickleKitty.com and author of Ride ‘Em Cowgirl! and Yvonne Fulbright, PhD, author of The Better Sex Guide to Extraordinary Lovemaking explain how to blend your O, and reach total bliss.  Read more

Lori Lothian believes porn has the potential to mislead men about the best bedroom moves to use with real-life women.

I had a discussion the other day with a female sex educator about porn. The gist of our talk was about how porn has the potential to badly mislead men about the best bedroom moves, the ones real women appreciate, versus the stereotypes porn directors and actors have woven into the collective sexual imagination.

Of course, in an ideal intimate union, you men are simply asking your partner what she likes (because each woman is as unique as her pussy). But because transparency and candor is often as scary in new relationships as farting during sex, let’s just take a stab at some general “women don’t really like this” pointers.

Here are five techniques porn teaches men that are not necessarily what many women will rave to their girlfriends about after he tries them on her: Read more

Here are a few tips to spicing up the average, and sometimes boring hand job. All it takes is a little imagination, combined with these tricks of the hand!

Hand jobs can be one of the simplest forms of foreplay, besides kissing and general touching. Some people consider them boring, but there are ways to jazz the average hand job up to rock your partners world. All a great hand job really takes is a little bit of lube, a partner, and some imagination! Read more

Sex is not only good, but good for you. Here are seven health benefits of having more sex.

Thanks to your dedicated years of research, you probably already have plenty of reasons to have sex — it’s fun, it’s a great way to connect with your partner, and, well, you’ve already watched that rerun of Frasier.

But did you know that sex also has plenty of health benefits? Actually, it’s kind of like a cure-all, Fountain of Youth, and pain-reliever all rolled into one. And you don’t need a partner to reap the benefits — there are plenty of reasons to practice the art of self-love.

Need a reason to jump in the sack? Here are seven: Read more

What’s not awesome about sex in  a new place, especially one that you don’t have to clean up afterward? Here’s are five ways to get the most out of hotel seex.

You’re paying hundreds of dollars a night to escape from your lumpy mattress and your cranky neighbors and your mold-stained shower that you don’t feel like cleaning and your pile of laundry that you’re actively trying to avoid. That’s what vacations are for: getting the hell away from reality. And while you’re kiddying up all of your hard-earned savings to have someone leave a mint on your pillow and turn down your sheets, you might as well fuck your brains out on those sheets that you’ll never have to wash. Below, some tips for getting the most bang for your buck in your hotel room. Read more

Kat George offers eight (much-needed) tips on how to flip a woman over for doggy style without ruining the moment.

I’m not sure if guys know this or not, but flipping a girl over mid-sex is a fraught act. Guys never seem to get the timing or the etiquette quite right, so that the disappointing anti-climax of many sex stories I hear from my female friends ends with, “And then he just flipped me over!” Cue resounding sigh and understanding femme-camaraderie head nodding.

In my experience, timing is the biggest problem, and here comes my first piece of advice to any dude who wants to do it from behind: be sure you don’t flip a girl over for doggy when she’s already on the yellow brick road to orgasm, especially if all you’re planning on doing is pounding her from behind and coming in 30 seconds. Read more