If you’re thinking of trying anal sex for the first time (or tried it and didn’t like it), here are seven tips for beginners.
Let’s just get this out of the way: anal sex is a major league sex move. It is not for rookies. Despite what you might have heard from friends, your partner, or seen on the internet, anal penetration is not something all people enjoy (which, as it turns out, is true of all sex acts ever). But if you’re thinking about taking the plunge, there are a few anal sex tips for beginners that should, quite frankly, be plastered on looseleaf paper all around town so everyone can get on the same page before they start. Read more
These eight orgasm tips can spice up your sex life starting right now.
Here at Refinery29, we don’t believe that any approach to sex is one-size-fits-all. Different techniques work for different people (with different partners, and at different times). That said, we have collected quite a few tried-and-tested tips that sex therapists, sex toy experts, and sex-having people swear can help you reach orgasm (and maybe even orgasms). No, orgasm isn’t the be-all-end-all of sex, but it’s part of the gamut of sexual experience, and a pretty great one at that. Read more
A woman’s breasts are an erotic hot spot. These five breast fondling techniques will stoke the fires of her arousal.
A woman’s breasts are a symbol of her femininity, and are often considered her second most erogenous zone, after the genitals. For the majority of women, their breasts are a source of great sexual pleasure. Not only that, but breast stimulation also increases vaginal lubrication. Even so, women do vary in how much they enjoy breast play. Although, most women find these five breast fondling techniques to be quite pleasurable, with a new lover, starting out slowly and gently to gauge her reaction is the best approach. Read more
Stand-up sex against a wall is a Hollywood favorite. Experts weigh in on how realistic it is.
“In movies, I’m always seeing guys lifting a girl up and having sex against a wall. I’ve tried it, but it doesn’t really work—is there some trick I don’t know about?” – Terry L. Grove City, PA
Moushumi Ghose, MFT, pyschotherapist/sex therapist: Nope, there’s no trick to it, except being super-strong. Standing-up sex has lots of in-the-moment passion, but without a counter or some type of support, it’s not a position you’ll probably be able to hold for very long. Read more
Not fEnough clitoral stimulation is the most common reason for women not having orgasms from intercourse. These five sex positions help fix that problem.
Despite how every rom-com ever makes it look, no, just hopping on top during sex isn’t going to give you magical, spontaneous orgasms either.
So, if clitoral stimulation is your jam, there are some adjustments you can make to your go-to positions that will definitely increase your ~satisfaction factor~. An extra hand or a toy down there can do wonders… Read more
Every man loves fellatio, but not every woman loves to give it. If you are one of those woman, this guide will help.
What’s the thing that every man loves the most? Drinking a cold beer on a hot day and watching his favorite game on TV? Sure… while his woman kneels down in front of him and wraps her mouth and tongue around his love tool! Read more
JoEllen Notte says you must have these five things for a successful friends-with-benefits relationships.
I love having friends with benefits!
No-strings-attached sex with someone who I’m comfortable with? Awesome!
The thing is, because so many of us were taught that committed relationships were the goal of all sex, this is new territory for a lot of folks — and that can lead to trouble.
With that in mind, I’ve put together this handy list of 5 keys to successful friends with benefits relationships to help you keep your FWB time WTF-free: Read more