About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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The Best 12 Sex Tips Ever Written

David Strovney has compiled a list of the twelve best sex tips ever written.

In an effort to help you be the best man you can be… in bed, the following tips encapsulate the best of the tips ever written. Once you master these tips, no woman will ever want to leave your bed. Read more

People Who Have Sex Every Day Are Healthier, Happier, and More Creative

If you want to be healthier, happier, and more creative, have sex every day.

There are only a few things I can do on my darkest days to make them seem a tad brighter; this small list includes things like crying for a solid hour on the phone with my mom, eating Chipotle and having sex.

Did that just get way personal? Oh well, it’s the truth. Venting to my mother, diving into a mildly spicy burrito bowl from my favorite chain and getting my freak on are just a few of the sure-fire ways I’m able to bounce back from a funk.

But, for some reason, having sex seems to be the biggest determining factor in my overall mood. Read more

17 Ways to Intensify Cowgirl Pleasure

This video gives women seventeen ways to intensify pleasure in the woman-on-top sex position.

15 Sexy Questions That Will ll Get Any Woman “in the Mood”

Donna Begg gives men fifteen sexy question that will get her mind off her stressful day and “in the mood.”

Men can all agree that there is something incredibly sexy about making a girl feel aroused … simply by talking to her. Thanks to technical advances, guys can now dirty talk via text to get their girl in the mood.

Whether you are whispering face-to-face with her or sending her steamy digital messages, here are 15 suggestive questions sure to get her in a sexy mindset.

Disclaimer: While some guys might use these questions to flirt with a girl, that’s not always advisable. Women often feel offended (that’s a little too much, too soon, buddy!) instead of becoming aroused. It’s always best to save these arousing questions for the woman already solidly in your life. Read more

6 Rules for Doing the Whole Open Relationship Thing Right

It is possible to have a happy open relationship, and following these six rules will make it more likely.

Having sex rEAwith someone besides your partner seems like it would automatically top the “things that count as cheating” list, right? Not so if you’re in an open relationship.

“An open relationship is a highly structured and negotiated partnership where individuals can have sexual experiences outside of their primary love partnership,” explains Logan Levkoff, Ph.D., a sexologist and expert on the reality TV show Married at First SightRead more

12 Crazy Sex Positions by Zodiac Sign

What’s your sign? Nicole Weaver has a sex position just for you.

We brought you 7 sex positions men love, sex positions that will bring you and you partner closer together, and of course the positions for a woman to reach the Big O! Now we decided to personalize sex positions even more by finding the best sex position for each zodiac sign.

People tend to follow horoscopes to follow up on their forecast in their love life and their finances. Why shouldn’t they also use it for sex? After all, when you take zodiac signs into consideration you may have more understanding about the other person’s feelings towards sex. Is your partner a passionate lover? Is your partner more experimental? Does your partner view foreplay as really important? Read more

The Pros and Cons of the Drunk Hook-up

Lauren runs down the pros and cons of the drunk hook-up.

Alcohol is my oyster. It is my aphrodisiac. It turns me on. It makes me want to hump anything on two legs (and the occasional wall). Give me a few Vodka/Soda’s and I am like a frat boy in heat.


That means that, against my better judgment, I often let my loins do the talkin’ and follow them wherever (and with whomever) they decide. And usually they decide to head home for a little intoxicated fun. Unless they are over-ruled by my belly, in which case we make a pit-stop for breadsticks en route to the fun. Read more

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