Neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) is an approach to communication developed in the 1970s. Men’s Health gives men tips on how to use this technology to seduce women.

1. Win a date with her

The trick Hidden commands

Used by Hypnotherapist Paul McKenna uses hidden commands to induce trances

The science Forget the old ‘look into my eyes’ schtick – there are easier and more  effective ways to place her under your spell. Harvard University studies found that hidden commands – Read more

Many women find cunnilingus to be the most satisfying sexual act. Indeed, a great number of women report that oral sex is the only way they can achieve orgasm.  The mouth can create a uniquely intense range of sensations because the tongue can manipulate the vagina and the clitoris in a variety of ways. Cunnilingus can include sucking or licking the outer and inner areas of the vagina, and usually involves direct stimulation of the clitoris. Here are five direct clitoral stimulation techniques to try: Read the rest of this entry »

Sure, she seems into you, but you can still blow it. David Strovny tells men how to conduct a successful one-night stand.

The one-night stand is the silent engine behind many a night out. The eternal possibility that your night might with you playing the giddy tour guide of your apartment to a sexy new companion is enough to keep you hitting the clubs weekend after weekend.

All the anticipation is part of the fun, but what about the moment of truth — the moment you let a woman into your place for the first time, a woman you’ve never met before and you may never meet again?

Because this woman probably didn’t know you before tonight, she doesn’t have much to go on. She assumes you’re a cool guy — she’s in your house, after all — but, as the saying goes, anything you say or do can be used against you. And that goes for the state of your bathroom, as well. What you don’t want is a night’s worth of seduction to evaporate before your very eyes when she sees your dingy sheets and decides that actually, she’d better get home because she has early plans with her sister tomorrow.

Before you head out for the night, make sure you have the following taken care of. Trust us, this stuff matters. Read more

The amount of sex you get may be important, but so is the variety. Boredom kill desire. Josephine Davis reveals the ten types of sex you should be having, starting with lunch sex.

Let’s face it ladies. If you’re a sassy, quick witted woman, you’re probably busier than the average girl. Your calendar is jam packed, you have a string of boys nipping at your heels, you’re expected to attend every social event of the year, and even though you’re flying through classes, you still need some time to release your inner lioness. So here’s a list of reasons why you should clear your calendar and get cozy between the sheets with your bed buddy, your boyfriend, or if you’re like Megan from Mad Men, your boss. Read more

If you’re like me, you’ve probably subscribed to several Facebook pages. However, I never found one that was exactly what I was looking for, so I decided to create a page that I would like. Sexy Is a State of Mind is my new Facebook page on which I post sexy pics and sayings to either turn you on or make you laugh – maybe both at the same time.

Check out Sexy Is a State of Mind and “like” it for a daily dose sexy pics and humor.

Gwyneth Paltrow, Jane Fonda, Sarah Silverman, and Zoe Saldana reveal their favorite sex positions to British TV personality Amanda de Cadenet.

Some of Hollywood’s most famous leading ladies have opened up about their bedroom secrets.

Gwyneth Paltrow, Jane Fonda, Sarah Silverman and Zoe Saldana were all quizzed about their sex lives in the new TV series, The Conversation With Amanda de Cadenet.

And the answers were surprisingly candid. Read more

If your oral sex  technique doesn’t cause your girlfriend to have mind-blowing, hip-shaking, earth-moving orgasms, adult webmaster has some advanced oral sex tips to help you fine tune your oral sex approach.

So you think you’re a cunning-linguist? Does your technique cause your girlfriend to have mind-blowing, hip-shaking, earth moving orgasms? No? Then read on for advanced tips to help you fine-tune your oral sex approach.

The Lick

Leaving your tongue soft and jaw relaxed, lick the outer edges of your partners vagina along both sides; moving from her vaginal entrance up towards her clitoris. Repeat this technique – moving up and then down – to get your partner’s heart racing. Read more