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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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3 Great Sex Positions for Female Orgasm

Satisfied WomanFor men, sex equals orgasm most of the time. For women, it’s a bit more complicated than that. Although movies and porn make it appear that most women climax within the first minute of penetration, many women actually have a difficult time reaching orgasm during intercourse. In fact, studies indicate that only 3o percent of women have orgasms through sex. The reason is because their partners are not hitting the “orgasm zone” that causes a woman to have an orgasm. Using the right ex positions can make a big difference. While every woman is different when it comes to orgasm, the following three positions are ones that lead to female orgasm much more frequently. Continue reading

How to Have the Best Sex of Your Life with Someone New

Ian Kerner reveals four ways to make the first time with a new partner amazing.

That first roll in the hay with a new guy can be mind-blowingly hot…if you’re in a movie. But in reality, there’s usually something that doesn’t quite click and you’re left wondering what you could have done to minimize the fumbling.

“You can be nervous, and you don’t know what the other person will be into,” says sex therapist Ian Kerner, Ph.D. Which is why, although you might have great conversation and kissing chemistry, taking the next step can get a little awkward. Here are a few ways you can make that first night as steamy as possible: Read more

How to Convince a Woman to Have Sex with the Lights On

Ali Fedotowsky reveals how to convice a woman to have sex with the lights on.

My girlfriend doesn’t like the lights on during sex. What can I do to make her feel less self-conscious?

—Matt, Las Vegas, NV

Look on the bright side: You two are doing it regularly, right? So you’ve established a mutual comfort zone. Now you just need to expand it. Read more

7 Sex Tricks to Try Tonight

Aly Walansky shares seven tricks she collected from sexperts that you can try tonight.

Women, like men, have their favorite sex tricks. Some may prefer sex when it’s slow and romantic, others like it a little rough. And even when you get tuned into their favorite positions and how they like to go to about it, there’s still certain moves to learn. That one caress in a specific place that will drive them wild.

Discovering those details is so much of the fun. “Every woman’s specific sex preferences are different,” says relationship expert Laurel House. “Some women love doggy style while others simply can’t get off when taking it from behind. Other women prefer the pressure of a man’s body on top of her in good old-fashioned missionary,” she says.

We spoke to House and other experts to give you some of the best sex tricks you can possibly pull off. Don’t worry, this isn’t just for you; she might just enjoy these way more than you do. Read more

A Guide to Multiple Orgasms for Both Men and Women

Sexologist Megan Stubbs reveals the secrets of multiple orgasms for both men and women.

In the debate over which gender has it better between the sheets, women will point out how easily men can reach climax and men will reply that women can have multiple orgasms. It’s true, women are more likely to be multiply orgasmic. The good news is men can experience this (or something very similar) too — with a little training. Sexologist Megan Stubbs gives us all the details about trying for another orgasm and how this can work for both men and women. Read more

The Easy Sex Trick That Will Make Any Position Better

Sexpert Pamela Lister says that practicing one sex trick will make any position better.

We get it: You’re sick and tired of reading countless articles about how there is one sex position that is the holy grail of sex positions.

So, allow us to tell you the truth. You really don’t need to be in one position or contort your body in weird, unnatural ways to have mind-blowing sex or achieve an o-mazing orgasm. Sexpert Pamela Lister of REDBOOK’s Stay In Lust Forever says by just doing a few Kegel exercises every day and tightening up down there, you’ll make sex way more pleasurable for the both of you right then and there. Read more

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