About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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4 Football Plays You Can Use in the Bedroom

Celebrate the NFL playoffs with these four football plays you can use in the bedroom.

As with most things in life, football offers all the wisdom and lessons you need to understand almost any concept. Although your girlfriend might scoff at the notion, the bedroom is really no exception. After all, if these plays are enough to ensure success on the gridiron, then who is she to say that they won’t work in the sack? Read more

6 Underrated Sex Moves Women Should Try

These six underrated sex moves are ones that women should try, but usually don’t.

Nibble His Ear

The ears are an often-overlooked erogenous zone. Just a light nibble on this sensitive part can send shivers down a man’s spine. Start by whispering something sexy or lightly licking the edge of your guy’s ear. If he responds well, gently nibble on the outer edge or lobe a few times during your next make-out session to really get him in the mood for more. Read more

5 Cunnilingus Finger Techniques

Even though cunnilingus is oral sex,  these five finger techniques can make it even better.

Oral sex is mainly about the mouth and tongue, but that doesn’t mean you should adopt a hands-off policy when going down on your lover. Skillful fingers work quite well to help build the sexual tension that will be released with orgasm. Adding these five finger techniques to your oral sex repertoire will add to your lover’s pleasure. Read more

How to Strengthen Your Penis for Better Sex

Relationship coach Jordan Gray reveals how to strength your penis for better sex.

Have you ever suffered from bouts of erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation (especially when it mattered the most to you to perform well)?

It’s completely normal. It’s also completely avoidable. And it can be so much better.

Want to turn your sex life from something that gives you anxiety into something that you confidently crave? Want to know that you can be up for the challenge whenever it presents itself? Want to know that you will forever be able to sexually provide for your partner?

No more having to rely on excuses like “Sorry, I guess I had too much to drink”, “I’m just not in the mood tonight”, or “I came that quickly because you just looked so damn sexy”.

It’s time to strengthen your penis for better sex, firmer erections, and legendary lasting power between the sheets. Read more

If You’ve Never Tried Irrumatio You’re Missing SO Many Orgasms

Sex adviser Susan Bratton says that if you’ve never tried irrumatio, you’re missing so many orgasms.

Most men admit to me that the oral sex they receive from their woman is not as good as they’d hope, yet they won’t tell their partner this because they’re afraid doing so might demoralize her.

The same way women are afraid to hurt a guy’s ego by giving him direction in bed, men don’t want to make us feel bad, especially if there’s a chance we might take serious offense and refuse not only to work together to improve the situation, but we also may withhold oral favors (or sex of any kind) in response.

After all, even a crappy blowjob is better than NO blowjob. Read more

For more about irrumatio, see my article Irrumatio: Even Better Than Fellatio?

Science Finds a Huge Benefit to Swallowing Semen

A study has found a huge benefit to swallowing semen.

What if someone told you that you could live longer without having to make a potion of your own blood and the hair of a virgin? What if the solution to living longer was in your very own home…actually, in your husband’s penis?

A study published in  revealed that spermidine, a chemical found in semen (but also in foods that you can eat with pleasure, like cheese and whole grains) helped rats’ hearts function better and reduced blood pressure, thereby helping them live longer.

“Our results suggest a new and feasible strategy for protection against cardiovascular disease,” the researchers wrote. Read more

8 Fingering Problems and How to Solve Them

Hayley MacMillen examines eight common fingering problems and dhow to solve them.

Fingering, IMO, is severely underrated, often seen as nothing more than a short stop on you and your partner’s way around the bases when — if done right — it can be a main attraction. Zoë Ligon, sex educator and founder of inclusive sex toy store Spectrum Boutique, is with me on this. “Hands are the most versatile sex toy there is!” she exclaims. “They’re often overlooked and just seen as tools for foreplay, but manual sex is sex.” In the interest of elevating the art of the fingerbang for giver and receiver alike, Cosmopolitan.com asked five sex experts for their takes on the biggest fingering problems and how to address them. Read more

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