About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Supersize Your Orgasms

Follow this step-by- step guide to deliver a supersized orgasm – one for him, one for her!

Give him the best orgasm he’s ever had
Yes, we all know the joke says simply handing him a beer and taking off your clothes will do the trick.

But we’re after a super-sized orgasm here, so start with the beer and nakedness and add a whispered promise that he doesn’t have to do anything: just take.

He’s in heaven already. Read more

6 Sex Positions to Try When You Just HAVE to Spice Up Your Routine

When you just have to spice up your sex life, try these six creative sex positions.

If you automatically roll your eyes when you see yet another headline with the words sex positions, rest assured that there are still at least a few you definitely haven’t heard of—and that won’t make you feel like you have to be part human, part pretzel to pull them off. If you wanted to, you could truly try a new, totally doable position every day without running out of options.

So if you’re itching for some new and creative sex positions but you feel like you’ve already tried everything in the book, here are some moves even the most voracious readers of sex tips probably haven’t heard of: Read more

How Penis Size Influences a Man’s Sex Appeal

Penis size influences a man’s sex appeal, and the taller the man, the bigger the effect, research from The Australian National University has reveals.

5 Porn Tricks to Leave to the Pros

More likely than not, re-enacting the moves you see in porn won’t make you a sex god. They’ll just make you another man who’s clueless in bed.

Want to screw yourself over in the sack? Keep watching other people screw each other on the Internet.

Porn, as titillating as it may be, can really give you an unrealistic impression of what women want in bed. Thing is, a lot of dudes watch it—which means a lot of dudes end up trying to pull off some PornHub Hall-of-Fame position that ultimately ends up being a real buzzkill. Read more

Save Water; Shower Together: 6 Tips to Keep You Wet

Sexpert Emily Morse gives six sexy tips to make shower time a fun time.

As we celebrate Masturbation May, it’s important to recognize why self-pleasure is so important. Of course this month is all about loving yourself with the goal of an earth-shattering climax, but it’s also about recognizing that masturbation is a healthy and wonderful expression of your amazing sexual self. Masturbation May is also the perfect time to show your lover exactly what feels best for you and your body, and to see what makes your partner hot too. So let’s jump in the shower for our six hottest tips on how to get dirty with some good, clean, masturbation fun. Read more

5 Dos and Don’ts of Hot Oral Sex

Kitty Nelson reveals five dos and don’ts of hot oral sex.

Oral sex. It’s an amazing foreplay technique, a major turn-on, a great appetizer to sex, or a full course all on its own. Whether you give it or receive it, it is an extremely arousing and intimate way to interact with your partner’s body.

But there are rules … if you want to ensure it’s pleasurable for everyone involved, that is (and of course, you do, right?). Want to make going down a real treat? Here are some tips, tricks, and traps to avoid. Read more

A Definitive Ranking of Every Way to Have Sex

There’s the Mile High Club, three-way sex, make-up sex, and any other kind of sex you can think up, and for each, there’s an advantage and a drawback.

Ah, sex. It’s right there at the base of Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs, alongside food and air. We think about it every seven seconds, and then we go to sleep and dream about it continuously. It is, as George Michael affirms, natural and fun. (Best when it’s one on one is open to debate, as I think even George would now concede.) As Esquire‘s leading sex expert (or, for short, “fuckpert”), I have been asked to analyze and rank all the different kinds of sex you might come across in your travels through life. Read and debate with a loved one, or someone who is less than 250 feet away from you on the hookup app of your choosing. Read more

Recent Comments

  • Svetlana Ivanova: Yes, the evolutionary theory is probably right. Human males don’t have bright colors or tail...
  • Danny: I love reading your stuff, and I definitely agree that size matters big time. Even though many women would...
  • Katie: Great article, this is exactly what I have been doing with my husband for years now. All massage’s with...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: More women than you might think actually measure a particularly large penis. That’s how they...
  • John Mode: Either women are very poor judges of how big an inch actually is, or they have very unrealistic...
  • Pillywiggins: I like a big cock and being fucked really hard and deep. I never really complain about dick size....
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Typically, the watching part is more of a turn-on for the man, who gets to see his wife experience...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: It should if the woman already has experience with big penises, and the man knows what he’s...
  • Astra Kiro: This feel good sensation applies to all women with men,even in first date circumstances?
  • Dorian: Unfortunately I am quite small and I know that my wife likes them really big. Would you recommend to try...