About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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10 Things No One Tells Men That Will Make Them Better Lovers

The desire for sex is instinctive, but how to do it is not.  Tiffanie Drayton reveals ten things that no one tell men  that will make them better lovers.

There are many reasons why men don’t necessarily know what women really like in bed. The most important: a lack of access to real information. Movies oversimplify sex by not really showing what happens in the sack, pornography is just, well, pornography, and “Talk Sex With Sue Johanson” is off the air. Aside from that, us ladies are pretty confused as well. Some of us are unaware of what our bodies really like and others don’t want to speak up out of fear that our partner’s feelings will get hurt. So where do men have to turn to get some real info? Well, not too many places. For that reason, The Frisky has compiled this list of essential tips for men to help them be better lovers. This is just a beginners’ guide, so stay tuned for more! Read more

10 Surefire Tricks for Better Sex – According to Science

The world’s foremost doctors reveal to Esquire their surefire tricks for better sex.

You can try all the sex positions you want, or you can call up the world’s foremost doctors for sex advice on their one surefire trick in the bedroom. And then the positions get better.

Tell Her She Looks (and Tastes) Great

“It’s been proven that women who feel confident about the appearance of their genitals are more open to different kinds of sexual activity, and are more likely to orgasm because they feel relaxed… When a man goes down on his partner, he should be enthusiastic, tell her how beautiful she is and how great she tastes. Don’t treat it like a chore.” —Debra Lynne Herbenick, Ph.D., Indiana University, Kinsey Institute Read more

How to Take Your Sexual Pleasure to Another Level

Adding variety to your sex life on occasion will keep her interested and excited to be having sex with you, AskMen’s Wing Girl Marni shares seven exciting sex positions that will leave her begging for more.

What Should You Do with Her Breasts?

You can think of a million things to do, but these is is what  she’ll love.

Breasts are affectionately referred to as “fun bags” for a reason: They’re really freaking fun to play with. They’re round! They’re perky! They’re soft! They’re squishy! But for as much glee as you receive from her breasts, you want to make sure she’s having an even better time—and that might not happen if all she gets is giddy groping. Read more

Learn How to Make Sex Coffee

Learn how to make sex coffee – the recipe that boosts libido.

You already have a morning cup of coffee. Why not make it count?

Wake up your vroom-vroom with this suprisingly simple recipe: a cup of java, maca, cacao, and cinnamon. That’s it! These raw foods have been used since ancient times to support your sex drive and if you’re not mixing these bad boys into your daily diet, you’re missing out on some seriously sexy benefits.

Here’s what each ingredient may do for you: Read more

9 Sex Myths That Could Seriously Hurt Your Relationship

“It ain’t what you don’t know that gets you into trouble. It’s what you know for sure that just ain’t so.” – Mark Twain

How many of these nine sex myths do you believe?

No one wants to admit that they’re doing it wrong. You know what I’m talking about: sex. By the time we reach our teens, we want to think we know everything about it. But well into adulthood a lot of us are still clueless, running around with all kinds of silly ideas in our heads about how sex works. Then we carry that misinformation into a marriage, and no wonder there are so many sexless or sexually-blah relationships out there.

Two doctors are out to dispel as many myths as they possibly can through a new book: Don’t Put That in There! And 69 Other Sex Myths Debunked by Dr. Aaron E. Carroll and Dr. Rachel C. Vreeman. Even if you’re sure you know everything about sex you may be surprised… or at least curious. Come on, admit it. Here are 11 myths about sex that could be ruining your marriage — or at least dampening things in the bedroom. See how many of these you already knew. Read more

How to Give a Vaginal Massage

Vaginal MassageFondling the vagina is often part of foreplay for many couples, but few men have ever given their partners a full vaginal massage. This is a mistake because vaginal massage is relaxing, pleasurable, and arousing for women. It is not only a perfect prelude to intercourse, but it also can be done by itself when intercourse is not desired. To give your partner an amazing experience, just try these ten vaginal massage techniques. Continue reading

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