How to Have a Happy Threesome

April 15th, 2014

If a having a threesome is one of her fantasies, sex educator Charlie Glickman reveals how to make it a success.

Ah, the threesome. Is there anything that inspires so many fantasies? And is there anything as likely to cause complications in your relationship? Threesomes can be amazing fun, but only when you set them up right. Here are some useful tips to make sure that everyone is getting what they want. (This is written for couples looking for a third person — there are some different things to think about when you’re solo and looking for a couple.) Read more

The 5 Best Things About Having a Friend with Benefits

April 13th, 2014

A friend-with-benefits relationship doesn’t have to be complicated and messy, says D.A. Wolf..

Do you believe that “friends with benefits” is purely no-strings sex? Do you consider it a phase that some women go through when they’re young, purposely avoiding a committed relationship?

Some of us believe that friends with benefits can be mutually enjoyable and perfectly suited to our needs – not just when we’re very young, and not as a matter of explicitly avoiding commitment. Read more

The Dos and Don’ts of Threesomes

April 10th, 2014

Celebrity sexpert Emily Morris reveals the dos and don’ts of threesomes.

If you think a threesome is going to solve all your problems, you’ve probably watched one too many dirty movies.

A ménage à trois between Scarlett Johansson, Javier Bardem, and Penélope Cruz can make even the most monogamous person want to pursue a threesome. But if you’re going to dip your toes into the murky waters of a ménage à trois, you’ll need to learn the do’s and don’ts first. Then you can decide if a night of hot sex and high school fantasies come true is worth all the trouble. Read more

Why You Forget Your Hook-up’s Name After Sex

April 8th, 2014

If you forget your hook-up’s name after sex, you may be suffering from transient global amnesia – which means it’s not your fault!

So, you met a cute guy or girl at a bar and things went well enough that you woke up next to this stranger the following morning, only to realize you forgot their name. Besides drinking, is there a scientific explanation on why you don’t remember a hookup’s name? Are you just really insensitive and shallow because you were more focused on bringing this person back to your place instead getting to know them? Or, is your brain tricking you? The answer could be the latter. Read more

How a Woman Can Increase Her Odds of Having an Orgasm During Sex

April 6th, 2014

One little trick raises a woman’s odds of having an orgasm during sexual intercourse by 18 percent.

Want to boost your chances of having a mind-blowing orgasm? (That was a rhetorical question, obviously.) Science might be able to help. Previous research shows that you’re less likely to climax during a casual hookup, but you can boost your chances of having an orgasm by choosing the right foreplay, according to a new infographic that pooled data from the American Sociological Review. Read more

How to NEVER Disappoint a Woman in Bed

April 3rd, 2014

Here are the essential things every man must know to never disappoint his woman in the bedroom and to make sure she has the most powerful orgasms and surrenders to her deepest desires…

“Your Place or Mine?” The Pros and Cons of Where to Spend the Night

April 1st, 2014

“Your place or mine?” Chiara Atik lists the pros and cons of where to spend the night.

Look, if we could all spend our dating lives having sex in hotels, we would: swank, cushy, neutral rooms that you can just leave at the end of the night. With room service. And robes. And little bottles of shampoo you can take home.

Unfortunately, life is not a vacation at a 5 star hotel, and when it comes to choosing where to spend the night with your lover, you’re usually left with two options: your place, or theirs.

So, which to choose? There are pros and cons to both, obviously. Read our list, and then take the poll to help us decide which is better place to spend the night: Yours, or theirs? Read more

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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)
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