About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Everything You Need to Know About Getting It On in the Shower

Aly Walansky reveals everything you need to know about getting it on in the showeer.

Similar to hot tub and beach sex, steaming it up in the shower seems hotter than any romp in the sheets. But the reality of shower sex is… not always so sexy.

Between trying to get the right position, and keeping her lubed up thanks to the water constantly washing it away, you may think that the fantasy is better left in your dreams. Until now. Shower sex really can be sexy. In fact, it can be amazing, says dating expert Laurel House. Read more

15 Things Men Think When Women Are on Top

Frank Kobola reveals what goes through a man’s mind when a woman gets on top.

1. Please tell me you’re getting on top. I really can’t handle pumping away anymore. My butt muscles are so tight that I don’t think I’ll ever be able to poop again.

2. Don’t break my reapenis. You’ve pretty much got complete control here. Don’t roll off the bed or slam down on it or something. Please.  Read more

Meet Eufrat Mai, the Woman Who Was the Vagina Model for the FleshLight

Meet Eufrat Mai, the very pretty woman who was the vagina model for the FleshLight.

Why Men Should Love the Missionary Position

The missionary position is the most popular among women. Ben Kassoy explains why men should love it too.

Ok, I’ll say it: I hate missionary.

Most people rarely think about it, which is weird, considering it’s the most common position.

I’m not one to be too particular about sex—honestly, I’m just glad to be having it. Nor do I require acrobatic bedroom maneuvers like we’re performing in a show called Sex Du Soleil. Nonetheless, missionary is something I really can’t get behind—er, on top of.

Think about it. You’re forced to hold yourself up, which strains the triceps and occupies the hands. There can be trouble controlling the rhythm and pace. It’s clumsy. And, it conjures up memories of the first time. Not that mine was traumatic or anything—awkward, sure—but missionary feels regressive, like I’m still that ungraceful 18-year-old. Read more

The Ultimate Guide to Having Sex in Public – Without Getting Caught

If the idea of having sex in public excites you (and it probably does), Amanda Chatel reveals how to do it without being caught in flagrante delicto.

I hate admitting that I even have a bucket list in the first place, but I do and there are many things on it, and I hope to eventually cross all most of them off. While I know “Yoko-ing” a band and becoming the muse for the fashion designer Nicolas Ghesquière, à la Charlotte Gainsbourg, are likely impossible to achieve, there are still some things that I must do before I die – if only to kill the curiosity within and gain some bragging rights. One such item on the aforementioned list is having sex in public. Why? I don’t know. The thrill, maybe; the been there, done that, need to check it off my list, even more so.  Read more

How to Perform Amazing Oral Sex on a Woman

Legendary porn star Nina Hartley gives men advice on how to give a woman amazing oral sex.


Margaret Cho’s Guide for Having a Successful Threesome

Comedian Margaret Cho gives some serious advice to men for arranging a successful MFM thressome.

Margaret Cho wants you to have a great threesome.

But the comedian and host of TLC’s new show “All About Sex” cautioned viewers of HuffPost Live that while a three-way is often the first thing couples try when they want to open up their sex lives, it’s actually one of the more challenging types of intimate exploration. During a conversation with host Alyona Minkovski, Cho explained to an adventurous fan that threesomes offer the highest possibility for jealousy of any form of group sex, and it’s important to take careful steps to ensure a satisfactory experience. Read more

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