About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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How Big Is Too Big?

This is a great tutorial on the topic of penis size. It’s more or less what I’ve been saying since I started this blog..

My Sex Positions Ebook Is Available!

missionary-positionEverybody says that changing sex positions is good, that knowing your different options will make your sex life exciting and so on, but why, how, and what advantages does it actually give a couple? One thing trying new sex positions is not about is sexual acrobatics, which few people are interested in  What many couples are interested in, though, is making sex more fun and pleasurable. Continue reading

The Ultimate Guide to Couch Sex

Couch sex? Sure, why not? Here’s how to do it, according to sexperts.

Sure, couch sex can be awkward—real estate is precious, and limbs can slip off the couch and crash into an end table. But good couch sex can be a real gem in your sexual repertoire: “Part of what makes couch sex hot is that it gets you out of the rut of the familiar. There’s nothing like seizing the moment and continuing right where you are,” says Megan Fleming, a sex and relationship therapist in New York City. To navigate the ins and outs of couch sex, we tapped sex experts for their best advice: Read more

7 Sneaky Ways to Show a Man What You Like in Bed

Some women are afraid that their sex partners will be offended or think they’re sluts if they tell them what they want in bed, so Isis Nezbeth  reveals some alternative ways to make your point.

The only thing worse than not having sex is having bad sex, but how do you let him know he’s not getting you there? Should you even tell him? The answer is yes. Sometimes you gotta let him know what’s up! You don’t have to argue about the sex, you can simply show him what you really want. Here are seven sneaky ways to show him what you really want in bed. Let’s get into it! Read more

10 Things Men Wish Women Knew About Sex

Find out ten things men wish women knew about male sexuality.

Freud called female sexuality “the dark continent”; if that’s true, male sexuality could qualify as the dark planet. But when it comes to sex, guys are simple, right? Not true. The bedroom is one of the great stages of male performance, and as such, what you see and hear is typically the role, not the reality. It’s no wonder, in trying to please the actor, a woman loses sight of a guy’s true identity. Here are 10 “unmasking” facts you may want to know: Read more

Porn Stars Reveal 3 Secrets to the Perfect Blow Job

Porn stars reveal how to give the perfect jobs.

If you’ve ever gone down on your significant other and found yourself wondering if you’re doing it right or whether or not if it’s the best they’ve ever had, you’re not alone. Maybe you’re just wondering or maybe you’re looking to better your head game.

Either way, if you want to learn how to give the perfect blow job, you’re going to have to learn from the very best in the business: porn stars.

WoodRocket recently released a video that gives us curious or dedicated Internet searchers all the nitty-gritty insight into tips for pleasing a man’s tip. I imagine that porn stars probably get asked about this all the time, at least enough to make them put out a video on the low down for going down. Read more

4 Bad Boy Sex Tricks Nice Guys Can Use

Sexpert Gabrielle Moore reveals four bad boy sex tricks that nice guys can use to become the kind of lover women talk about to their friends.

Bad boys are legendary – a woman who’s been with one practically passes out from bliss when she talks about her experience. You might be thinking, “Who, me? Be bad boy?” But any man who wants to can wake up his hibernating alpha male… and have a good time doing it. See, bed-devil status is about a fearless attitude, not how much sexual experience you have or whether you wear leather. Women dig when guys are unbridled and uninhibited, push their own boundaries, break the rules, and ask for what they want. While you’re probably eager to meet the bad boy inside, you may not be exactly sure where to start. If you think you can handle the heat, try one of these no-holds-barred ways to get very dirty. Read more

Recent Comments

  • Alle P: Popping the penis (tip #2) is something my husband loves to do even if I’m not deepthroating but it...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: This is an excellent article, but you do need to actually read it and watch the video, not just...
  • Mike: What a bunch of crap and a waste of time who ever wrote this doesn’t explain or give any of the tips they...
  • Mixxxer: You nailed it! Exploring sex positions and allowing your partner to do it is a sense of intimate sexual...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: That is definitely on the small side.
  • Fox: Thanks. Would 4.25/4.5 inches be just too small/”is in yet?” for most women even with positions for...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: A woman should be able to feel five inches or more. Positions help, but it depends on the woman.
  • Fox: Is anything 5inches and over good then? I take it even positions for small penises wouldn’t help those...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Less than five inches is going to make a woman wonder if it is in yet.
  • Fox: Seems pretty clear that size does matter to most women! Guess those in the 7-9 inches range probably have what...