About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

Google Translator

    Translate from:

    Translate to:

How to Handle Her Breasts

If you’ve made it to second base and have her shirt on the floor, there are several  things you should know to avoid  clumsy mistake that turn her off instead of on. AskMen’s Marlee Kostiner shares ten tips for handling a woman’s breasts.

3 Ways to Guarantee All-Night Sex

Men can have longer-lasting, better sex with these three tips.

Don’t panic

If you’re having problems with longevity in the sack, forget pills or “natural” remedies, as they’ll never help, says Dr Keith Hopcroft. “Also, try to keep cool about the situation. It usually improves with time, and ‘performance anxiety’ just makes matters worse.” Try these three techniques to help you go the distance: Read more

3 Tips for Having an MFM Threesome

Marni lays out a play-by-play guide to having a threesome with your wife, girlfriend, or girl you are dating.

The 6 Most Overrated Sex Acts and Positions

Some things just don’t live up to all the hype. Kristin Collins Jackson thinks these six sex acts and positions are totally overrated.

Growing up in the age of the internet meant that porn no longer involved shady backrooms in the back of a local video rental store with sticky VHS tapes and running into your Biology teacher. We were fortunate enough to have porn at our disposal for entertainment, for our learning, and more importantly? Getting off. Of course, the phenomenon of internet porn was once something you needed a monthly or annual subscription. Most of us were not trying to explain a charge from Bangbros.com to our credit card company. Luckily, there was one perv I knew in college that had little shame and shared his password to the best sites for all our enjoyment. This was, clearly, a horrible idea. Being one of the only girls that had the password, I had an insight into my guy pal’s intimate, strange desires — it was shocking yet intriguing. After finally meeting men that didn’t just want to have sex in the missionary position, I found myself trying some of the less offensive sex acts and positions that I first came to know on the internet Read more

26 Good Sex Tips for Married Couples

If you’re a married couple who wants to spice things up in the bedroom, Lisa Lombardi has twenty-six good sex tips – one for each letter of the alphabet.

Accessorize the action

To really blow his mind, break out the bling-bling and wear nothing but jewelry to bed: It’ll fulfill his Vegas-showgirl fantasy. Graze the nape of his neck with your chandelier earrings. Slip on a stack of bangles and create a clamor under the comforter. Or skim your superlong strand of faux pearls up and down his legs. (Earn bonus points if you tie him to the bedpost with them.) Read more

16 Things Women Think During Doggie Style Sex

Have you ever wondered what is going through a woman’s mind when you’re doing her from behind? I didn’t think so. For those whose curiosity is piqued now that i brought it up, Lane Moore reveals sixteen things women think during doggie style sex. This one is my favorite:

10. My arms are killing me. I really should be doing more planks. Wait, does this count as a workout? It’d be cool to not have to go to Beyonce Yoga Dance Blast tonight. Read more

9 Hints All Women Give to Say They’re NOT Happy in the Bedroom

Men frequently wonder whether their wives or girlfriends is really sexually satisfied or just saying they are. Eden Strong lists nine hints that all women give when they are not happy in the bedroom.

Is your girl satisfied in bed? No really, is she? How would you know if she wasn’t? Most women don’t want to hurt our partner’s feelings and it’s always a little uncomfortable telling someone you love they aren’t performing in the ways that make your body feel good. It’s awkward.

There are, however, a few hints that almost all girls gives either unintentionally (or sometimes intentionally) that signal you aren’t really aren’t doing it for us – or to us – in the right way. Read more

Recent Comments

  • Svetlana Ivanova: Click on the link at the end of the article (and elsewhere).
  • Ashley: I was nervious my first time I ever had anal it was with my oldest daughters dad who is very thick and almost...
  • Andrea Collinson: How can I download the book “Guide to great anal sex”
  • Svetlana Ivanova: She’s an ex, so why no?
  • Svetlana Ivanova: It depends what you mean by below average and satisfying, I guess, but to your actual point, my...
  • hansa0451: So I been seeing an ex girlfriend on occasion. Its nothing relationship wise we hangout sometimes and...
  • Dorian: Hi Svetlana, did you ever have great satisfying intercourse with a guy who had a below average penis? If yes,...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Your fears are valid, but his size isn’t necessarily a barrier to anal sex. My article How to...
  • Suzanne: My concern is that my husband is quite large 10″ and I don’t want a torn rectum. I’ve...
  • Suzanne: Good info. The butterfly took me some years to be able to do since my husband is between 9 1/2 to 10...
sex forum