About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Great Fingering Techniques to Blow Her Mind

Learn how to blow her mind with these great fingering techniques! This video gives you two valuable tips to get started, show you where the clitoris is ,and what techniques you can try to please her.

How to Get Her in the Mood for Morning Sex

Ali Eaves explains what to do when you’re an early riser, and she isn’t.

It bugs me how late she likes to sleep on weekends. How do I get her to join me at the breakfast table?
—Andrew from Athens, Ohio

You’re hoping I’ll say morning sex, aren’t you?

Sorry, but I’d suggest bacon. There are few people on Earth who aren’t roused by the smell of sizzling pork fat.  Read more

Most Teen Boys Think Porn Is Realistic

I already knew this was true, but it’s still bad news for it to be confirmed.

A study of the porn habits of 1,000 preteens and teenagers in the U.K. found that most teens have not only seen porn, but a considerable percentage of teen boys say they want to try to emulate sex acts they see in porn videos. Read more

20 Women Reveal Their LEAST Favorite Sex Position

Find out if the sex positions you think she loves might be the ones she wishes you’d forget about.

We’re going to beat you to the chase: Yes, obviously some women will love the positions indicated below; these are just the opinions of 20 individuals.

Also, her favorite sex positions can very well change depending on the guy she’s with and, well, what he’s packing. There are some moves that work better for well-endowed guys since there’s a thin line between getting that feel-good deep penetration and inflicting pain just as there are moves that are perfect for shy guys and couples looking for a raunchy time in the sack. Read more

6 Sex Tips from a Porn Director

A porn director shares some things he has learned about from his years in the adult  industry.

Working in the adult industry has taught me lots about sex. I always used to think I was broadminded until I actually started working on films and realized that there was still a lot more to learn. I have always tried to take the approach that if whatever we’re filming is turning me on then hopefully it will turn on the viewer. The reality of this is that everyone is turned on by totally different things and it can sometimes be difficult to cater for everyone’s specific tastes. Many films are shot with the view of what the market wants with the aim of turning out a product that will sell so it will try and appeal to the widest audience possible. Read more

10 Ways To Make Blow Jobs More Fun For EVERYONE

Even if oral sex is good, who wouldn’t want to make it even better? Em & Lo share ten ways to make blow jobs more fun for everyone.

Going down on someone is no easy task. And letting someone go down on you can be quite nerve-racking. Despite these potential oral sex setbacks, the experience can be awesome.

Both partners deserve to enjoy the journey down south. Rather than focusing solely on techniques to please the receiver, I’m going to share some secret tips that will benefit both partners — how to improve your overall experience without having to change those special techniques that already work for you and your partner. Read more

10 Compliments That Will Get You Laid

Have you been striking out with, “Hey, baby, you so hot?” Then try one of these ten compliments instead. Even if they don’t get you laid, they will improve the relationship because they are the type of compliments that people really appreciate.

It’s been a really interesting week. I’ve spent time with some of the most amazing men and women,  and I’ve also had some of the most bizarre encounters with men and women. In both the best and worst social situations, I have started to realize the power of a fucking awesome compliment. The one thing I’ve learned is that when people are willing to open themselves up and give honest compliments with absolutely no expectation of getting anything in return, they often get exactly what they wanted.

What a concept, I know.

So as fall settles in and we start the hunt for someone to keep us warm on those long wintery Maine nights, consider using a great compliment at the end of an interesting conversation instead of a pick-up line. Or, if you are in a relationship that needs a little reboot, slide one of these compliments into conversation and reignite some Hugh-Grant-style passion. Even better, use this with a friend or a friend-of-a-friend and see how a great friendship can morph into something more. Read more

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