About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Male Brains Are Wired to Choose Sex Over Food

Males can suppress their hunger in order to focus on finding a mate, a new scientific study of a species of worm has shown.

Male brains are wired to make them ignore food and look for a mate instead, according to new research.

The study by the University of Rochester Medical Centre points to how subtle changes in the brain’s circuitry dictate differences in behaviour between males and females. Read more

A Little Rough Sex?

Sarah Rae Vargas gives tips on how to explore BDSM without doing anything too painful or scary.

3 Tricks to Get Your Ex Back

Getting dumped can be devastating. If you want to try to save the relationship, Jennifer Lawless tells you how to go about it.

A break-up can cause emotional trauma and distress. Almost everyone has experienced a break-up once in their lives, and most will admit that the experience can be devastating. That’s why so many people want get back their ex, not only to escape the emotional pain, but because the relationship is worth giving another attempt. Here are three tricks to get back the ex sooner that you may think possible. Read more

The Science of Hook-ups: 5 Shocking Facts About One-Night Stands

Discover the surprising ways your brain (and a woman’s hips) play a role in casual sex encounters.

It’s a familiar scene: a thriving nightlife, a club or maybe a wine bar where glasses are clinking and singles are mingling before drifting off into the shadows — two by two. It’s not the perfect picture of romance, but when you’re caught up in the moment, a warm body feels like a fair substitute for love, right?

Hooking up is just a reality of the dating scene. But since when did the hookup scene become the place to find love? While you may think you’re just living the carefree single life, your brain is influencing your decisions more than you might want to admit. Read more

8 Signs That Your Partner Might Be Cheating

Your partner’s sexual behavior could be a tip-off, says Amy Richardson.

Do you suspect that your partner is being unfaithful to you? Often, it can be quite difficult to tell if your partner is cheating on you; however, many cheating partners eventually display signs of infidelity, most of which are associated with their behavior. Here are eight signs that your partner might be cheating on you. Read more

5 Rules for Better Fellatio

BJAlthough women know that most men enjoy fellatio, a lot of women don’t feel confident giving it. That’s somewhat understandable. Women don’t automatically know what feels good to a man’s penis.  It takes some tria and error to find out what oral sex moves turns men on. Also, every man is a little different in his oral sex preferences. However, there are certain things that nearly every man likes, and it really has very little to do with techniques and tricks. What makes  a blow job enjoyable is less about what you do than it is how you do it. If you follow these five rules when giving fellatio, you partner is almost certain to enjoy your blow job. Continue reading

The 9 Biggest Myths About Fellatio

Frank Kobola reveals the nine biggest misconceptions about blow jobs.

Everyone has questions about blow jobs, so I called up Dr. Benjamin Brucker, an assistant professor of urology at NYU Langone Medical Center in New York, to help me myth-bust the biggest misconceptions about blow jobs. Read more

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