If a woman isn’t sufficiently aroused before intercourse, it’s unlikely that she’ll have an orgasm with intercourse. Men’s Health gives men six steps to arousing a woman, and the first one isn’t putting her hand on your penis. Arouse her sufficiently, and she’ll do that on her own.
1 Time to talk
To get the party started your lovely lady doesn’t need you to massage anything but her ego. “She needs psychological cues to reinforce how desired she feels, which comes from what you say to her early on,” says Dr Margaret Rees, consultant gynecologist at the John Radcliffe Hospital in Oxford. Read more
Just as men keep score in sports, women keep score in their relationships. Much like a credit score though, your relationship score has serious consequences. With a high score, you can sometimes borrow from it, even heavily, without any big problems. Psychologist and sexpert Dr. Belisa Vranich gives men five ways to score points with their women..
From the moment she meets you, she starts a virtual bank account in her mind. But you’d never know. She’s adding subtracting with a pro poker face, using a complex labyrinth of mathematical axioms in which you have emotional credits or debits. You have no clue until you reach an extreme — you find yourself locked out on the front poand rch or you get handed a fistful of get-out-of-jail-free cards. What are some of the moves that will keep you out of the red?
1. Brag about her, at earshot. Whether it’s her lasagna or her ability to talk herself out of a parking ticket, give her props even if she has her back to you a couple feet away. She may look engrossed with her conversation, but believe me, one ear is always cocked in your direction. Read more
Since the dawn of civilization, the penis has been a symbol of power, fertility, and man’s primeval instinct to mate. Cracked.com profiles five inspiring religions that worshiped the penis.
Some articles demand a profound introduction. Others … not so much. If we were a different website we might use this space to talk about how America is the biggest penis-worshiping-religion of them all. But we’re not that website (in case yesterday’s bowl of penises didn’t tip you off). We assure you, this is no metaphor. You will find no pop psychology or vaguely phallic imagery in this article. These are religions that worship human penises. Learn from them. Read more
Who says women can’t be as pathetic as men? A 41-year-old female teacher sent sexually explicit photos of herself to a 15-year-old male student, and as anyone who read this post could have predicted, he forwarded the images to his friends.
Perhaps New Hampshire high school teacher Melinda Dennehy missed the orientation session when they explained that sending your naked photos to a student is sort of a bad idea.
Police say the 41-year-old English teacher sent four sexy shots of herself to a 15-year-old male student at Londonderry High School. The student, it seems, thought that was pretty nifty. Police say he forwarded the images to his friends. Read more
The Sun selects its favorite films of 2009 with nude scenes.
One we’re finding pretty hard to choose from this little line-up.
To celebrate the real thing this Sunday, we’ve created our own take on the Oscars – the Oscorrs.
It’s a selection of films from the last year with the naughtiest and best nude scenes.
Films nominated include The Informers, for its steamy scenes starring Amber Heard (pictured above) and Bad Lieutenant, scopping an award for Eva Mendez’s very perfect bottom. Read more
In this video, Carlin Ross and Dr. Betty Dodson discuss the politically incorrect truth that most men have small penises. Carlin recommends that men do Kegel exercises to keep their penises in shape. (If you don’t know what she’s talking about, Michael Paladin describes Kegels for men and outlines an exercise program in his post Exercise for Harder Erections.) Dr. Betty fondly recalls the 5 1/2 inch penis that rocked her world.
Hollywood actor Mickey Rourke claims that he once bedded fourteen women in one night in London. In my opinion, the most amazing thing about this is that Mickey Rourke was able to find fourteen women actually willing to have sex with him.
The 57-year-old bragged that Ashley Cole’s antics had nothing on his own raging libido and claimed footballers were “pussycats”.
The Wrestler star told TV host and WAG Lizzie Cunday: Forget Ashley Cole, his behaviour has nothing on a film star. WAGs get an easy time – they should try living with Hollywood hellraisers.”
“I once spent a weekend in the UK and 14 women in one night.” Read more
While some men have been educated in female anatomy and in the practice of pleasing a woman, most men fumble around like a donkey on ice skates trying to find a way to get a woman to reach orgasm. If they only knew that the clitoris is a primary source of erotic stimulation for women, they would be much more successful. Sex therapist Ian Kerner explains how not to be “ill-cliterate.”
In the US, many men seem to know more about what’s under the hood of a car than the hood of the clitoris. I think “ill-cliteracy” is a shame. In terms of the G spot, a lot of fuss is made over the differences between clitoral and G spot orgasms. The clitoral orgasm is often criticised as being quick and light-hearted, while G spot orgasms are somehow deemed more serious and substantive. Read more
Sexting is the slang term for the use of a cell phone or other similar electronic device to distribute pictures or video of sexually explicit images. You might expect your sext message to remain private, but nearly one in five sext recipients report that they have passed the images along to someone else. What do you think would happen when a girl sends her nude photo to the entire hockey team?
So does sexting — sending sexually explicit messages or pictures over those pocket-sized connectivity machines that I think the young kids refer to as “cell phones” — really happen? Is it a big deal? Yes. And yes.
Apart from finally being able to eviscerate my wallet of the string of fake ID personalities I have adopted over the years, my 21st birthday brought along another interesting gift. “Happy birthday babe :-),” read the text on the screen, but that wasn’t really what I was paying attention to. My eyes were fixated on the perfectly tanned canvas of skin spanning from neck to feet. Perfectly tanned, perfectly nude skin. Happy birthday, indeed. Read more
I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. My sexual history and preferences are detailed in my post 100 Things about Me Sexually.Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor.
I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. My sexual history and preferences are detailed in my post 