About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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3 Ways for Women to Have More Sexual Pleasure and Orgasms

CoupleMany women are not experiencing the sexual pleasure and orgasms that they could and should be enjoying. It’s not completely the fault of men, either. That’s not to let men off the hook completely. However, before a man can bring us to orgasm, we need to be ready and willing.

1) Be confident about your body.

If you are not confident undressing in front of your partner, you may not be confident enough to communicate to your partner on how to bring you to that peak of sexual pleasure. Confidence plays a big role in sexual satisfaction because it allows you to relax and open up to your partner. If your body isn’t perfect, join the club. Whatever flaws you think you have, you far more aware of them than your man is. Be confident about your body. Continue reading

10 Cunnilingus Tips for Pleasuring a Woman

female-pleasureNobody knows what to do. You just close your eyes, you hope for the best. I really think they’re happy if you just make an effort. – Jerry Seinfeld

We all want to give women orgasms when we have sex with them, and cunnilingus is the best and fastest way to do that. However, just making an effort is not enough. It also takes a little knowledge. Here are ten cunnilingus tips to give a woman the best, most intense orgasms she ever had: Continue reading

3 Cunnilingus Tips Guaranteed to Make Her Orgasm Tonight

WomanA lot of women have difficulties receiving pleasure and climaxing from someone else’s touch, so you need to be able to find a surefire way to give her the kind of pleasure that you are looking to give. The only way to make that happen is with oral sex. Twice as many women can reach orgasm from cunnilingus as can from intercourse. However, you need to perform oral sex on a woman the right way. These three cunnilingus tips are guaranteed to bring her to an orgasm tonight. Continue reading

5 Penis Enlargement Myths Exposed

unhappy-coupleMany men are unhappy with the size of their penis, but the majority never do anything about it. Why not? Probably because they don’t think they can. They believe the myths about penis enlargement that doctors or friends have told them all their lives. If they knew the truth about these myths, they might be motivated to take action. Here are the five most prevalent penis enlargement myths: Continue reading

Big Breasts from the Woman’s Viewpoint

Sarah Miller reveals what it is like to have big breasts.

I have had large breasts for about 20 years. I’m 32, so let’s say, roughly, that my breasts were on their path to greatness halfway through the Carter administration. By the time Reagan was sworn in, I was officially stacked.

I first realized I had big breasts when I was about 12, in, of all places, a fish market on Cape Cod. For years, the fishmonger had been showing my buxom aunt marked favoritism. “This is for you,” he would say, measuring out what she’d asked for, then, with a wink and a glimpse at her bustline, tossing on a few more shrimp or an extra fillet Read more>

The 4 Best Sex Positions for Quickies

When you want to get it on and get it done, Kristen Dold says these four sex posittions are the best.

You want to bone tonight, you really do. But The Bachelor is on, your eyelids are fluttering, and it’s 8 p.m.

For nights when you’d like an orgasm served straight up (no side of foreplay or slow-jam soundtrack), take advantage of the quickie. “It’s the Chinese food approach to sex—pick dishes you know you like and consistently come out good,” says sex expert Ian Kerner, Ph.D.

Up the down-and-dirty factor by choosing a spot that feels spontaneous (like the kitchen table or an armchair), then get into one of these wham-bam positions and light the fire. Trust us, you’ll be fully satisfied before the final rose.  Read more

11 Sex Slang Terms You Need to Know in 2016

Being up-to-date on the latest sex slang terms may not be absolutely necessary for most people, but it is kind of fun to be in-the-know.

Millennials say the darnedest (and dirtiest) things. But seriously, the new sex slang terms that are becoming popular in 2016 are equal parts hilarious and cringe-inducing. Check out what everyone will be saying this year and see if you’re in the know. We’re warning you now, some of these are worthy of a brow raise. Read more

Recent Comments

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