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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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3 Ways to Make Your Man Ejaculate Faster

lingerieWhile most men ejaculate during sex in less than ten minutes, there are others who take more than thirty minutes to have an orgasm. Even if that’s not an issue, sometimes you want your man to ejaculate faster for rother reasons, such asyou’re tired, you need to get up early or because you’re not really up for sex but you didn’t wan to tell him no. Whatever your reasons, It’s great to know how to make a man orgasm almost at will because it gives you total power over how long sex lasts. Here are three ways to make your man ejaculate faster. Continue reading

A New Twist on 3 Old Sex Positions

Laura Berman describes some new twists on three old sex positions.

If your sex life is starting to feel a little too choreographed or paint-by-numbers, you’ve got two choices. One, you can add some new positions to your sexual repertoire. Hey, we can think of 45 you haven’t tried yet.

Your other option is to breathe some new life into those old positions. Bored by the same-old-same-old routine of missionary, or her on top, or you from behind? Laura Berman, author of The Passion Prescription, has some suggestions for making small changes to these rusty classics. Try these, and you’ll feel like you reinvented the wheel. Read more

How tto Convince Her to Have a Threesome

Of course, you want to have a threesome, but if your wife or girlfriend needs some convincing, Mish Way has some tips.

The threesome has been the ultimate goal for most men since the beginning of time. OK, perhaps that’s a stretch, but the idea of group sex (especially bringing in another woman to join you and your significant lady) is a fantasy for most men. And why wouldn’t it be? But if you want to kick the vanilla and see if you can manifest the threesome for yourself, there are a few things to keep in mind. Read more

Can Vaginal Tightening Improve Your Sex Life?

Vaginal tightening can improve your sex life in more ways than you might think, says Caitlin MacKenna.

One of the most common questions women have about vaginal tightening is, “Can vaginal tightening improve my sex life?” In most cases, sexual pleasure will indeed improve as a result of vaginal tightening, but not always in the way you might think. While most couples recognize the sexual benefits of increased friction during intercourse, but it is not the only factor that improves sexual relationships. Read more

How to Attract Younger Women

Dating expert Kezia Noble reveals how older men can attract younger women.

Can You Tell If Someone Is Flirting with You?

A university of Kansas study reveals the 26 signs that someone is flirting with you.

Valentine’s Day is a day away, but for those looking to find a date, how can you tell if someone is interested?

Well, fortunately, researchers have worked out the science of flirting, to find out what people do most often if they are attracted in another person.

And the results are in: Starting off being encouraging and complimentary, and ending by being expressive and using open palm gestures, is a sure-fire way that someone is interested. Read more

The Dos and Don’ts of Sending a Penis Photo: A Guide for Men

Erin Gloria Ryan gives men a guide to the dos and don’t of sending a penis photo.

Anthony Weiner is back in the headlines with new revelations that the New York City mayoral candidate kept sending pictures of his spotlight-loving penis (who one can only assume is nicknamed “Carlos Danger,” because Carlos Danger is a great penis name) well after he assured the public that he was very sorry for acting like a borderline predatory pervert and was going to step away from polidicking to focus on his family. Problem is, Weiner’s execution was all kinds of wrong. Here’s how you navigate the hazardous waters of the Dick Pic Sea, guys. Read and learn. Read more

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  • Svetlana Ivanova: If you’re talking about having an orgasm from intercourse, it’s not unusual for women...
  • Sam: Hey there, I have some questions. I have been with the same guy three years and he has been my only sex partner...
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